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Showing posts with label narcissistic rage. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Exposure: Is it an Intervention? or Revenge?


Mistaken by a cyberpath as an attack.




A predator/ narcissistic cyberpath is complicated but simultaneously transparent when confronted with exposure of their motives.
They are always about the next fix, so if a situation becomes difficult and they find that it is not making them feel good they will blame shift and start looking for the next target. They can never admit and are incapable of realizing that 110% they did it to themselves!

...it was never, ever about you. It was always about them. All about their relentless and all-consuming pursuit of the nectar of supply. You simply made yourself available for feeding upon. You were an means to an end. Nothing more. Yeah, that smarts.

...They don't see you. It's not about you. It will never be about you. You didn't exist for them as a fully feeling and sentient human being. They can not properly assess your value as a person. You are only as good as the nectar of attention you can give them. No matter how great the quality, at some point they get bored. All you'll get for thanks is a door in your face and a big kiss off. They are nothing more than big children who play with their toy for days, weeks, months. Then one day they lose all interest in the toy and kick it aside for another...
you've been drastically and catastrophically demoted. All in a moment, a twinkling of the narcissist's eye.

They've moved on to another source and leave you to the licking of your wounds. Lick your wounds, but don't work on that too long. You have reason to be thankful. You are no longer being used. You are no longer someone's sycophant, slave or fall-back supply source. Been dumped by a narcissist? Thank the God in Heaven for your new lease on life and resolve to not again be taken in by a parasitic narcissist.

They are not worth the tears you're shedding for them. You are weeping over the relationship
you thought you had, but never did. - SOURCE

Next time they will be more careful not to get caught or figured out. And the next target gets to be on the receiving end of the heightened game.

But what if they have been EXPOSED?


The script has to change now. What does that mean?


Effort. Now they have to work harder to keep up the lie. Reputation, ego, image, humiliation.
 


Now their avenues for prey have been depleted downward.


Now the blame shifting has become their only weapon. Make it the other person's fault, but don't stop there. Do it up big. Make themselves the victim . Turn it around and play the "poor me" card.



They will attack you, smear you, turn you into the enemy, lie about you, defame you and even engage others in helping to 'bring you down.'


Always notice that at no point do they think about who they hurt, stop to feel bad about the pain they caused someone else. At no point can they see that they need to STOP and realize that if it has gotten this bad, it is time to reevaluate themselves and get help. No, narcissists are incapable of this moment of self awareness. They don't have the internal mechanisms for this sort of deep introspection. They can SAY they do - but they do NOT.



Even though its time to wake up... They Can't. They simply CAN NOT.


This doesn't happen because of their entrenched belief that they are superior to everyone. Oh, they may apologize to the wife/husband/partner; go to counseling for a few weeks and bamboozle the counselor; even tell a minimized, white-washed, spun story of "what really happened" according to them - but those they preyed on? Well, its THE PREY'S fault isn't it?


NOT!


Then they keep finding outlets, ways to escape reality. New identities, new websites, new emails. Putting you on exposure sites. Even if they say they do - they don't stop. Ever.
Being Exposed is an Intervention. Our Intervention for them. And they will only see it as a full frontal attack. So don't stop. DO THE INTERVENTION... but do it for you and others.
The ways they respond confirms its the real truth which they exposed - ALL BY THEMSELVES.

Friday, November 16, 2012

TIPS FOR DEALING WITH A CYBERPATH

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(excerpted from ALBERT J. BERNSTEIN, Ph.D's work on EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES)

1. KNOW THEM, KNOW THEIR HISTORY, AND KNOW YOUR GOAL
The way to anticipate a cyberpath is by knowing how they've acted in the past. Chances are pretty good that they'll do the same thing in the future. The big mistake you can make with cyberpaths is assuming, without evidence, that though their record has been bad in the past, that they have learned their lesson, and will do better this time. When you deal with cyberpaths, always ask yourself what you're trying to accomplish and why. If you're not sure, don't do anything until you've thought about it carefully.

2. GET OUTSIDE VERIFICATION
Cyberpaths want you to listen to them alone. To control you, they'll try to isolate you from your usual sources of information. Always check out what they say with a trusted friend or other resources, especially when you'd rather not. Cyberpaths, like vampires, can't operate in the "light of day." (Be aware: Once you check them out a Cyberpath will accuse you of "stalking." Ignore the accusation and find out everything you can about them!)

3. DO WHAT THEY DON'T
To prevail over Cyberpaths you must rush in where they fear to tread. Your greatest strengths lie in doing the things you can do that Cyberpaths can't. (Like telling the truth or doing a background check when they asked you not to)

4. PAY ATTENTION TO ACTIONS, NOT WORDS
What cyberpaths say is often very different from what they do. To avoid being drained, always focus on what they do NOT what they say!

5. IDENTIFY HYPNOTIC STRATEGY
Cyberpaths are consummate hypnotists. When you see through the smoke and mirrors, their illusions don't work nearly so well.

6. PICK YOUR BATTLES
To be an effective Cyberpath fighter, you have to be able to pick the important battles and ignore the rest. You also have to avoid fighting battles you can't possibly win (such as getting them to admit the truth or trying 'force' them to apologize or praying they will change!)

7. LET CONTINGENCIES DO THE WORK
A contingency is an if-then situation. If someone does a particular thing, then certain consequences will follow.

The only way Cyberpaths learn anything is by experiencing the consequences of their own behavior.

If you're ever tempted to rescue a Cyberpath, think about what you're teaching him or her about how the game of life is really played.


8. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS AS CAREFULLY AS YOU PICK YOUR BATTLES
With Cyberpaths what you say, how you say it, and when you say it are all crucial to the outcomes you are likely to achieve.

9. IGNORE TANTRUMS (Attacks, Idol Threats)
When Cyberpaths don't get their way, they throw tantrums. They can explode into all sorts of emotional outbursts or attacks/ threats whose only purpose is to get you to give in or hurt you so you do something against your better judgment for THEM. Don't.

10. KNOW YOUR OWN LIMITS
Dealing with Cyberpaths requires a lot of effort. Stay Strong.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Some Take Their Hate Online


By Rob Perez

Not content with just inflicting physical or verbal abuse, domestic violence offenders are turning to the digital and electronic worlds to hound their victims.

Those who deal with restraining orders in domestic abuse cases say they are seeing a growing number of examples in which the abuser uses text messaging, public Web sites or other forms of high-tech communication to reach their targets.

Family Court Judge Michael Broderick, who presides over protective-order requests, said he is seeing more cases of abusers turning to the Internet.

He recalled one recent case in which an ex-boyfriend wrote on a public Web site that his ex-girlfriend was great in bed, wanted lots of sex and listed her home address.

The high-tech abuse is happening even though protective orders that Broderick and other judges issue prohibit any type of contact, including e-mails and text-messaging. Someone who violates a protective order is subject to a year in jail and a $1,000 fine.

Allegations of high-tech abuse show up frequently on petitions for restraining orders.
"He is writing blogs about me on MySpace without my consent," one woman wrote in her petition, which alleged that her ex-boyfriend beat her, destroyed her treasured possessions and once threw her into the shower fully clothed and turned cold water on her after she refused to shower with him.

"Some blogs also contain our 'love story.' The whole world can basically read what was going on between us."

Another woman who alleged her husband physically abused her said he sent text messages about him having sex with two girls and kept referring to her as a "fat ugly whore."

One woman said her boyfriend threatened to put on the Web a video of the couple having sex — she said he took the footage without her knowledge — if she broke up with him. She broke up with him anyway but is still worried about what he might do.

The latest text message she got from him: "It's not over til I say it's over."

Some abusers take advantage of the anonymity of the Internet.

A Makakilo woman told The Advertiser her ex-boyfriend responded to her Craigslist ad, posing as a stranger. He sent a series of e-mails seeking more information about the item she was selling, then started asking personal questions about her social life. The e-mails eventually devolved into demeaning comments about her, she said.

The woman had a restraining order against the man, and she said he was using a fake name on the Internet to circumvent the court order.
When she reported the abuse to police, she was told nothing could be done because she couldn't prove the e-mails were from him, the woman said.

Sometimes, just the threat of online abuse is enough to get a response.

Ed Flores, executive director of Ala Kuola, a nonprofit that helps people file petitions for restraining orders, said a woman recently came to his office to complete paperwork seeking an order against her boyfriend, who had been physically abusing her.

While she was at the office, her alleged abuser called on her cell phone and threatened to write about their sex history on a public Web site if she went through with the petition.

The next day, Flores said, the woman called to say she wasn't going to pursue the restraining order because of her boyfriend's threat.

Monday, June 18, 2012

TAKE YOUR CONTROL BACK!

STALKING YOUR STALKER

Are you, or someone you love, so damn frustrated by a stalker (or cyberpath) you just want to scream? Adding insult to injury most recommendations come in the form of things you must do. You, not the stalker, are advised to turn your world upside in hopes it might stop. Law enforcement tells you there is not enough to make an arrest. Nobody or nothing seems to help.

When you are at your wits end I suggest you stalk the stalker. No, I don’t mean literally go out and follow them around. Nor do I mean gather all their personal information you can get your hands on. What I do mean is learn as much as you can about them. You need to become your own expert on how they think.

Why? Your stalking will offer some relief in two ways. Your research will reveal you are not crazy and that you are just an object used for pleasure.

Let’s go inside the mind of one type of stalker, the psychopath. If you have trouble grasping it, don’t be surprised. Most of us do not think the same way.

I want to focus on the psychopath because they are extremely destructive with potential life ending consequences. We have no way of predicting if your stalker’s desire includes this possibility. All are not created equally.

Unless they come out and admit prior instances you are left in perilous fear of the prospect. In your own best interest keep a positive outlook.

For the purpose of this article I am going to assume your stalker is a psychopath.

Generally, most people’s behavior is constrained. We are not typically aware of it, but it happens just the same. It is this natural constraint that your stalker may lack. Without it, their game of life is played by totally different rules.

Consideration of their rules helps explain their actions and might translate into some predictability on your part. You did not volunteer for any of this, but you are in it just the same.

Believe it or not your stalker has the advantage right from the start. By the time you realize anything is going on they have your life down. Someway, somehow, somewhere you became an object they have a desire to play with. Why you are the chosen has no precise answer.

To ask why they don’t stop is easier to understand. Their unfettered actions will continue until they no longer have the object (you) available or they become interested in a new object (phew).

Obviously if you are able to build a case strong enough your stalker is off to prison for a while, the game is over or maybe just suspended. In the worst case scenario you do not live to tell about it, then the game is over.

The best outcome and one that you may have a slight influence over is transference of interest. This is when you are replaced. These individuals are predators and they will stalk their entire life. Some prey may never be aware of it until it is over. But in your case you are very aware.

The other way your stalker has an advantage over you is their actions are unfettered. You may have no appreciation of this fact. Get some advantage over the the situation and wrap your mind around the concept their actions are delivered to you without any feelings for you whatsoever. You may be dealing with them the same way your deal with anybody else.
Big mistake.

How you feel about the way you are being treated makes no difference. To them you are like a soccer ball, kicked around for pleasure. Pleading with them does not compute.

Imagine you are out in a huge grassy meadow listening to your favorite music. Nobody is around. A song comes on you love. You jump up and start dancing like never before. No constraint, the music moves your body without a care in the world. The music is your motivator and your body is responding to a desire. Nobody is around to inhibit or constrain your actions. Try it sometime. You may dance like never before.

Most of us are inhibited by what others might think and constrained by not wanting to hurt another. If your stalker is a psychopath, then they are not.

Why they do not stop is because they are neither inhibited nor constrained. They do not have the ability to identify with your feelings. Remember how you feel in the meadow. Nobody is around to identify with so you feel free to move your body in accordance with your desire.

Your stalker lives in this meadow all the time. Only their meadow may be downtown New York City.

What about the fact they are living a normal life outside their stalking behavior. If you believe that you need to take yourself back to the meadow. Nothing is normal about their life. Getting along in a world that has different rules comes from learning and executing taught behavior. It is that simple.
When faced with something unique their true identity is revealed. If you know what to look for you will see it. Their response will be inappropriate, unless they get lucky.

Highly intelligent psychopaths are masters at this. What they learn as children is executed almost flawlessly as adults. Almost is the key word here. If you watch them long enough you will see repetitive inappropriate behavior.

Stalking is inappropriate behavior. If a stalker has a desire to stalk, they will pursue it irrespective of any attempts to teach them what is appropriate. Your telling them what they are doing is wrong is a waste of energy.

Research how the psychopath’s mind works.

Take back control of your life. Stalk Your Stalker ASAP.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Cyberpaths Have Narcissistic Characteristics

(EOPC believes Cyberpaths have both Narcissistic and Sociopathic Characteristics. Many of them probably suffer from either or both Personality Disorders.

Yours does not need to have all these to be Narcissistic. A handful will suffice.)
  • Self-centered. His needs are paramount. No one else’s count.
  • No remorse for abuse, outbursts, mistakes or misdeeds. EVER.
  • Unreliable, undependable. And often proud of it.
  • Does not care about the consequences of his actions.
  • Projects his faults on to others. High blaming behavior; never his fault. Blame and projection are primary M.O.
  • Little if any conscience or ability to empathize with others.
  • Insensitive to needs and feelings of others, especially his intimate partner(s).
  • Has a good front (persona) to impress and exploit others. Jekyll/Hyde personality ie: public vs private behavior with partner. OTHERS often believe the front/social “Jekyll” personality and think he’s Mr. Wonderful. This serves to isolate and discredit the victim’s experience so that no one will believe he’s abusive with HER even if she tells them.
  • Low stress tolerance. Easy to anger and rage. Explodes when frustrated.
  • Tends to humiliate his partner(s) in public or in front of friends/neighbors.
  • People are to be manipulated for his needs.
  • Twists conversation to his gain at other’s expense. If trapped, keeps talking, changes the subject, blames others/his partner, or gets angry and verbally abusive. It’s NEVER his fault. He’s ALWAYS right – and perfectly innocent if there are any issues. Tries to paint himself as an “innocent bystander” or "the victim" and blames others for the issue.
  • Pathological lying – often by omission.
  • Tremendous need to control situations, conversations, others.
  • No real values. Mostly situational. Abhors ANY request to change abusive or inconsiderate behavior in the relationship no matter WHAT he does to his partner in any situation. Will say he doesn’t want to follow any “rules” and will accuse his partner of trying to “control” him if she asks for even basic common consideration or respect.
  • Often perceived as caring and understanding and uses this to manipulate.
  • Angry, mercurial, moods, sudden outbursts, that he ‘forgets’ immediately, wants to ignore, or outright denies when confronted with them.
  • Uses sex to control – either excessively demanding or withholding, or holds the prospect of sex with other partners over current partner’s head as a control mechanism, manufactures stories about other women who “want” him then accuses his current partner of being “insecure”. Sets her up for abuse in this fashion.
  • Does not share ideas, feelings, emotions.
  • Conversation controller. Must have the first and last word.
  • Is very slow to forgive others. Hangs onto resentments. Continues to abuse partner over resentments indefinitely via hostile remarks, denigrating jokes. Continually either covertly or overtly angry and abusive.
  • Secret life. Hides money, friends, activities, both online and off.
  • Likes annoying others. Likes to create chaos and disrupt for no reason, particularly in his partner’s life and in his relationship with her both public and private – to keep her ‘off balance’. Then he denigrates HER as “unstable”. Sets her up for abuse in this fashion.
  • Moody – switches from nice guy to anger without much provocation.
  • Repeatedly fails to honor financial obligations, but expects others to honor theirs if they owe him money.
  • Does a lot of “nice things” that his partner didn’t ask him to do then complains that she isn’t appreciative enough afterwards. “The Controlling Caretaker“.
  • Seldom expresses appreciation himself. Conversation always based on whether HE gets enough appreciation, the issue of whether his partner is appreciated enough is never discussed. To him, that is irrelevant. It’s all about HIM.
  • Constantly criticizing most everything his partner does/says and how / why she does and says it. Partner feels like she’s “walking on eggshells” trying to avoid his constant criticism. She feels “under his microscope” all the time.
  • Calls his partner names and insults her: “You’re a spoiled brat!”, “You’re lazy!”, "You're stupid/ a pig/ a whore/ a liar/ a stalker/ a scorned woman/ insane!"
  • Grandiose. Convinced he knows more than others and is correct in all he does. HE is NEVER wrong.
  • Lacks ability to see how he comes across to others. Defensive when confronted with his behavior. Never his fault.
  • Only real emotion he is likely to display is anger. Rarely expresses sorrow or hurt except for “show”.
  • He breaks a woman’s spirit. Sets her up for abuse. Defines her according to HIS very negative and preconceived notions about women, then abuses her based on HIS definitions of her. Tears her down as a person. Then complains that she is “depressed” or “angry” about that as if she has no right to be angry or upset that she is being ABUSED and mentally RAPED in this fashion.
  • Needs threats, intimidations to keep others close to him.
  • Sabotages partner. Wants her to be happy only through him and to have few or no outside interests and acquaintances. Puts her friends/interests and accomplishments down.
  • Highly contradictory.
  • Convincing. Must convince people to side with him.
  • Hides his real self. Always “on”.
  • Kind only if he’s getting from you what he wants.
  • He has to be right. He has to win. He has to look good. He will do so at all costs.This is paramount.
  • He announces, not discusses. He tells, not asks. He asserts / states his opinion as FACT, never says “I think”, or “I feel”.
  • Does not discuss openly, has a hidden agenda.
  • Controls money of others or complains about their spending but spends freely on himself.
  • Unilateral condition of, “I’m OK and justified so I don’t need to hear your position or ideas”.
  • Always feels misunderstood.
  • You feel miserable with this person. He drains you.
  • Does not listen because he does not care.
  • Only his feelings are discussed, not his partner’s because to him, partner’s feelings are irrelevant.
  • Is not interested in problem-solving, only in placing blame/projecting.
  • Very good at reading people, only so he can manipulate them.
Written with male in mind; could easily be applied to females as well

original post found here

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Facebook Rage

Once again - the victims are being blamed or called obsessed! Why are cheaters, liars and players FRIENDING their victims and/ or putting their business on Facebook in the first place? If they weren't acting like narcissistic creeps - there wouldn't be a problem.

And what about 50 year old married people who put their spouses and buddies on Facebook to make themselves look like good people (like Beckstead or Dunetz!) and then prey on vulnerable people on loads of other sites... all the while pointing to their Facebook saying "see, you can trust me!" - EOPC

Funny Pictures, Images and Photos

Social networking sites are causing an outbreak of jealousy among partners of online fans that researchers have dubbed "Facebook rage".

Suspicious lovers find it so easy to trawl profiles for photos or messages that may show their partner is a cheat (or misinterpret things on Facebook) that they become obsessed.

And the more time they spent with their online surveillance, the more jealous they feel, according to the study by the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada.

Psychologist Dr Brenda Wiederhold said: "This new forum might be impacting the dynamics of adult relationships."

Sunday, March 11, 2012

The Downside of Telling A Cyberpath's Spouse/ Partner


While exposing a predator (or any cheater/ liar for that matter) can give YOU conceptual closure, bear the following things in mind while you plan how to do it:

What if the partner/spouse/job doesn't believe you.... but believes the lies and revisionist history of THE PREDATOR!!
  • You could lose your job
  • You could be accused of harassment or stalking
  • You could be accused of a vendetta against the predator
  • You could get a cease & desist order and/or Restraining Order filed against you

This is what the partner MIGHT do:

  • Tell YOU to stop pursuing their partner;
  • that the predator had already told them what a nutcase you are,
  • your attentions were not welcome and please stop trying to come between their relationship and/or start trouble in their family

  • Even if you can produce emails, instant message transcripts, letters, gifts, photos, etc as proof of the relationship. This is what might happen:

    the partner/job can say they prove nothing. Predators are VERY GOOD LIARS & TALKERS!! Even if you have source codes saved on instant messages and emails... they can still tell themselves YOU MADE IT ALL UP. (however these are great things to have if you need to go to law enforcement for any reason - and make sure law enforcement makes a REPORT and ASK FOR A COPY OF THIS REPORT)

    The Predator will also say YOU MADE IT ALL UP... or PLANTED IT...

    And their partner can say "So what? I don't even have any way of knowing that what you are showing me really came from him/her. Maybe YOU planted them!" ...

    The partner and the predator often call the police and make YOU out to be the bad one/stalker, etc. (or threaten to)

    If there are other targets involved, rest assured the predator has ALREADY planted seeds in their brain saying:
    • YOU are crazy
    • YOU are obsessed with them
    • YOU are just a 'scorned woman' or 'psycho ex'
    • THE PREDATOR is/was just being nice to you - that's ALL
    • YOU started the relationship
    • YOU are mentally ill
    • YOU are angry because he/she wouldn't sleep with you (even if they already did!)
    • THE PREDATOR will blame your divorce/ breakups on the "fact" that YOU are imbalanced and none of your exes can stand being around you
    • THE PREDATOR will blame any disability, illness you have because of them (including PTSD) on something else -- such as calling you "lazy" or "old" or "desperate for attention" or a "cheat" and so on...
    • YOU are the predator here, not them!
    • YOU invented everything
    • YOU are trying to hurt their relationship(s) because you are jealous
    Of course they have been so thorough that by the time you come on the picture with the truth - you are primed to appear the fool and your words have already been sprayed with the smell of fiction.

    Predators are VERY convincing liars and can spin a tale or explanation so convincing that even if you don't totally believe it, you think you're crazy for doubting it because they said it with ABSOLUTE CONVICTION (cyberpaths often believe their own lies, since they are a type of sociopath - and behave the same way)

    CLICK HERE FOR ANOTHER INFORMATIVE ARTICLE ABOUT THIS PROCESS

    It is easy to believe because the partner/other targets WANT to believe... it's part of their manipulation & seduction. No one really wants to admit they've been used, cheated on, lied to, manipulated and disregarded and your entire relationship was fake, would you? Now think about if you were the spouse/ partner/ or other relationship....

    It's easier to believe, even if the predator was caught red handed, that it's an isolated incident and will never happen again. Predators will often make all sorts of "shows" of accountability to save face with the family. Therapy, installing software for the partner, buying a new computer for the partner, etc etc. --- and believe us it IS all SHOW! Don't believe for a second that as soon as their partner calms down and they are sure their excuses have been 'swallowed whole' they will GO RIGHT BACK to things and trolling for new victims.

    Denial often beats out the pain of realizing what the horrible truth really is or facing divorce or the dissolution of a family or partnership.


    By the way? The cyberpath will FULLY EMBRACE the NO CONTACT rules laid down by their clueless partner, therapist, clergy or other targets. That means they will disappear on you - probably forever. Not having YOU and THE TRUTH in the picture makes it INFINITELY easier for them to spin their web of lies & deceit to those desperate to believe it. (While it usually sends your PTSD into high gear)

    If they REALLY are sorry? They would TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH as well as sit down and give you face to face meetings - with WITNESSES.

    And they would reframe their relationships with their partners, you and everyone else and allow for healing and truth across the board.

    But don't hold your breath.


    After a while, when you have been lied to non-stop by a predator nothing makes any sense any more and you have no real idea of how healthy people function, how normal relationships work, and what is and is not acceptable behavior.

    Reality and normalcy really no longer exist after a long enough period of time living with a Narcissistic type psychopath, cyberpath & predator. How many times have you seen people on TV whose spouses or partners were arrested and they say "we have been together for 20 years and I HAD NO IDEA!!" We bet they DID have an idea but buried it.

    When approaching a partner/other targets about the predator/cyberpath (or one of their friends and associates), you must remember that it makes perfect, logical sense to YOU, but to THEM, either nothing has made sense for SO long OR.... they have been fed so many lies and twists and become so bonded to the predator that there is no way on this earth that you can expect a reasonable, proportionate reaction to anything you have to say or tell them.

    CLICK HERE FOR A GREAT ARTICLE ABOUT OTHERS "NOT GETTING IT"


    The associates, friends & partners of predators, cyberpaths, narcissists, psychopaths have been so brainwashed and reprogrammed that all reason goes out the figurative window.

    These predatory types are very good at covering their bases, asses, and tracks. NEVER for an instant forget that. They plan for things we wouldn't even think of because we are basically honest people that don't need to hide things.

    There are none so blind as those that will not see.


    Think about it... now, from your standpoint, if someone showed you pictures of your partner's vehicle, with the plates in clear view and them getting into the car near something that definitely IDs it as someone else's residence, and then they claimed they were never there, you'd laugh in their face, right? Of course you would.

    Because you're OUT of the relationship with that predator or liar and things make sense again. --- But what would you have done at the time? Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.

    That said, Telling the Truth is the best and strongest option. But choose how you want to do it. (see links at the right where Victims Speak Out about the smear the predator tells about them!)

    Back up your plan and be ready for the above scenario. There are sites that deal with this sort of thing. Have hard & fast proof. Don't embellish. And be ready for the reaction.... whatever that may be.

    This should NOT be revenge but it can be empowering, conceptual closure and a step towards your healing.

    Tuesday, April 26, 2011

    Gary Stone: A Failed Life, Another Hate Filled Blog

    Gary Stone is one scary guy. No matter how 'rational' he tries to sound on his hate blog (and fails miserably) these emails, sent in just the last few months, to Victims 1 & 2 show how irrational, mentally troubled and IRRATIONAL he is. (EOPC comments in darker blue)


    Apologies: We have tried to catch all instances of coarse language -- if we missed any - we are sorry - EOPC.

    (1)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date13 April 2008 01:58
    subject reason
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 13 Apr Reply


    The purpose of the book.
    1. therapy
    2, to confront you with the truth, nothing got past me, ever..
    3, To make you conscious of the mess you have made out of many people's lives.
    and to warn you that if you don' t change you will sink lower.
    4. To prempt you, in case you produce your work of "fiction" on the subject as you said you wanted to do.
    otherwise it may never see the light of day, except in a guised format, with a theme separate, internet relationships,
    etc..
    5. vengemce yes, partly. it isnt a a bad thing, if the object deserves it and you do.
    You are one sick person, multi conference material. I haven't really had any feeling for you
    since Jan 14 when I got more info. I don't know how you sleep. I sleep fine, and oddly
    i never dream about you which is a blessing.
    Way better,
    I got another job closer to home, hired
    by the same company that was going to hire me in december with 42 pts except if somebody
    calls out, I only have to do 21.
    . I am the supervisor. Nearly 100 % nigerian staff, but, surprisingly they are all pretty sharp,


    Shows Stone's deep need for vengeance & control; also his racism. ==================================

    (2)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date17 April 2008 16:17
    subject xx,000 dollars
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 17 Apr Reply


    Poison lies. The reason you have difficulty with me is that you were not honest with me.

    But to be honest with me, is to show that all of what i am saying is true, and to show that, you fel condemns you. But with me, it's different, it's the only way you could be forgiven.

    I resent being the fart you laid in church that you want to forget. By not making amends with me, you condem yourself. I am not the only one you have harmed either. Saying:" I suddenly realized I couldn't cope with your family, I am sorry" is the truth. But, the deeper truth is, you knew this all along, and your original mistake was to get involved in the first place.

    You won't admit that, and you won't admit you have done it before. And, you won't admit it has caused destruction in other families. You won't admit that it was less love, that it was boredom, with infatuation. You won't admit, you were wanton, selfish, demanding, pressuring. You booked the camden trip before I approved. like the mensa booking. You would not admit the oversite of writing married on the landing card - you were the traveller, not me. You argued that people having affairs is no new thing, yes - but, they don't announce them.

    It was an oversite and poorly planned. The card should have said single, and you were my cousin. And you invited me to stay with your mom. Not a married man, leaving his wife, going to see a woman and her small child at your rabbit hutch.

    You cost me 86,000 dollars 35,000 in lost pay, 50,000 retirement 1200 for the aborted trip.
    none of it would have happened if you hadn't called my house.
    But, the money means less to me than the truth. Do you deny it? -------------------------------------

    He wants Victim 1 to be "honest" with him so that he can "forgive" her.


    He continues to assert that she should have lied to Immigration (June 2007) in order to get him into the UK, by saying he was her "single" cousin, and that her mother was his Aunt.

    He blames Victim 1 for the fact that he had no work for a year and that he had to use his retirement fund to make ends meet.

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    (3)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date21 April 2008 14:00
    subject brat
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 21 Apr Reply


    F**k your child! tell victim 2 I said that. She's a brat. he knows where I live.

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    (4)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to victim 1
    date27 April 2008 19:37
    subject xxxx
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 27 Apr Reply

    yer in fer a surprise. This war has just begun. stay tuned for victory two

    Book to immigration, alex salmond, sandra white et. all with an apology for your intervention in my case...this is round three, round 2 is in play,. where we met gets a link to the book, your friend gets a free copy, comply or be damned.

    ---------------------


    Shows his commitment to "war" against Victim 1, and demands that she "comply or be damned".
    Threatens (and soon follows through with threat) to send his "book" to:
    - Immigration Dept,
    - Alex Salmond (First Minister),
    - Sandra White (Member of Parliament),

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    (5)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to victim 1
    date27 April 2008 23:31
    subject your friends
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 27 Apr Reply

    xxx got book, your other friends are next, etc, I send it everywhere, deescale privately before it is too late.You name will be blackened everywhere if you persist, deescalte now.

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    (6)

    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date3 May 2008 20:04
    subject more hpv
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 3 May Reply


    it is intracvaginal under the pubic bone.
    if I test pos I will supeona your medical records.
    If knowingly passed this to me, that is endangerment, incidently, oral sex with an infected individual leads to warts and cancer in the throat.

    Does victim 2 have a wart?

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    (7)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date3 May 2008 20:15
    subject warts
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 3 May Reply


    http://www.kcom.edu/faculty/chamberlain/Website/lectures/lecture/image/condacu.gif
    warts can take many years to develop, but there is a serological test to check exposure. I am quite convinced that the clunp of tissue there is a wart mass. They cause penile cancer as well. I have never been promoscous so the presence of + serology is you


    Stone includes here a link to horrifying image of a wart-infested penis.
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    (8)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date4 May 2008 02:22
    subject foad
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 4 May Reply


    because you are a nut i can no longer post a comment on anybody.
    Please make the world a better place and FOAD, (f**k off and die) ===============================
    (9)

    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date5 May 2008 17:01
    subject HR directors
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 5 May Reply

    a few days ago I sent you info related to HPv, if you were the xxx type, you'd twist it, and say,
    "I sent you a pic of a penis lookie here"
    see? is that what you are? rem you said they would use my emails egainst me? will you turn out to be like them. If you were on my side, I could win this case.


    References his former supervisor at his former employer and his lawsuit against these. It has been revealed he was fired for insubordination and harassing emails to
    his former supervisor at his former employer. (surprise surprise!)
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    (10)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date15 May 2008 01:38
    subject Victim 1s bxxb on cover mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 15 May Reply


    Now listen boob, er, bob. If this is what u are doing, this makes moonstone a best seller. Fer sure, boob. er. Bob. would the land lord say they still deliver your newspapes there boob.

    If not, them where are you? You dont need a home base do you. so you could be at XXXXXXX ave, and, Victim 1 could be collecting child support, or csa, shit she might even attach yer check cause sh*t you up and left, and benefits office too, but boob, its all going back to xxx ave in your pocket. Haha. Yer a wealth of material for a writer, and shit victim 1 you can only manage a slopped over crabby crab, IQ 135 I must be off the map.

    Actually I am way brighter by light yrs and you know it. Even if untrue, I could make moonstone fiction, or based on reality and say so on book, some parts have been fictionalized, which serves multiple purposes. put in the back, most the love stuff was fiction, too bad the sex was not b**b. er, bob.


    "Word Salad" (aka Schizophasia)
    We think Boob/Bob is supposed to be him addressing Victim 2, and gloating that he has used Victim 1's cleavage on the front cover of his "book".
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    (11)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date15 May 2008 02:44
    subject XXX said enjoy this
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 15 May Reply

    I am refilig with welfare fraud to invesitgate where abouts of Victim 2,, is he physically living in XXX, is his computer at XXX, and other effects, and are you collecting csa money, and benefits, if so, why?

    I am doing this sign or not. I may file with XXX police dept. It is full scale war. My respect and love for you is gone.

    One of many threats to report Victim 2 and 1 to police etc. -- Confirms his commitment to "full scale war".

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    (12)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date18 May 2008 12:52
    subject the porely secular mind is corrupt
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 18 May Reply

    SEcularism is man leaving God to be God..see? In pursuit of being a God unto yourself Victim 1 you have corrupted yourself, This is why we keep pulling buckets of shit from your soul. .
    In this passage, Paul gives a brief but appalling overview of the effect of people turning their backs on the Creator God. Mankind has worshipped the creation more than the Creator, and thus, God gave mankind over to vile affections and to a mind devoid of true judgment—his own natural mind. Since man's experiences shaped his judgment regarding conduct, his ability to judge truth became vague and led to the horrible perversions Paul lists. Today, the world groans with the weight of bearing the fruit of this idolatry.

    Our own personal experience confirms the validity of these verses. Paul lists the consequences of a purely secular mind, which resulted from leaving the True Source of right standards out of our lives. He shows that when we follow the path described, we not only lose godliness but also true humanity.
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    (13)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date18 May 2008 13:31
    subject Victim 1 in court
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 18 May Reply

    Victim 1 in court..
    lawyer: Ms XXX did you tell Victim 2 that u inherited the money?
    Victim 1 ; "yes."
    Lawyer: "and what did you say happened to the home, it evaporateed, did you say it was foreclosed?"
    Victim 1: well yes well no.
    Lawyer: which is it victim 1 yes or no.
    Victim 1: commons Victim 1 such a thing is easily checked isnt it, the sale of the house is a matter of public record, as is the sale price. Isnt it true Victim 1 that you agreed you would not locate him, or his work, and not require child support provided he make no issue of the house sale, and did you rationalize the sale independent of him based on the fact that it was in your name, and he owed you money, xxx to be precise?"
    Victim 1: well er...yes and no. dueces wild.
    Lawyer: then you made people responsible to raise his child. Victim 1, you are guilty of welfare fraud aren't you?"
    Victim 1: well er...yes and no. dueces wild.
    Lawyer: did you report the sale of that property to the benefits office? did you? what about the sale of your apt, did you report that? how many counts of welfare fraud are you guilty of Victim 1?
    Victim 1, did Victim 2 ask you to lie to csa isnt that conspiracy to defraud? Victim 1, do you have any concept of how it is, that in the name of aquiring security for your child. Are you currently living with or have you lived with Victim 2, in the past two months,and did you draw support, from welfare and csa?"
    Victim 1: well er...yes and no. dueces wild.
    Lawyer: Victim 1 do you understand that Mr. stone has been unwittingly involved in your welfare woes, that his presence could have been a risk?
    Victim 1: it was Victim 2, he made me do bad things..
    Lawyer: your honor the defense rests.

    Stone sent Victim 1 his bizarre, fantastical made-up scenario (above) of how a lawsuit against her would go. Truly insane!
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    (14)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date19 May 2008 20:46
    subject carl jung war over give peace a chance
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 19 May Reply

    The book was not passed by me to the iq world, if so, i would have chosen the edited version, not the one with marked up spots for editing, ( xckljxcfjs that means i left off there haha)

    it is very sloppy near the end, and unfinished (nice pic tho) I should think you'd love the cover, etc pic at the end because of the way you so proudly displayed them on sound click, maybe i could pass that html along. But i am cutting the book off before the war, as i hope it will end. And I dont want to publish it. Victim 2 wants me too, cause he wants money from a law suit. The bonnie and clyde team i guess, but criminal is not what you were born to be.

    ....The book was offered to you to finish, to validate in the way you feel goes wrong but i suppose you cant because it isnt far off.

    Why you would hand it to Victim 2 is beyond me, i doubt he's read jung, i have, and his cosmic archetypes. concepts. anyway. I hope you didnt send him our skype pics, well ya did didnt you. encouragement? i presume, did you do it while you were typing platonic promises? i supoose i have driven you close to him, but, only close enough for you to see how corrupt you are under his influence. and how you destroyed something good for fear of being seen in a bad light, you now feel you have to be every bit the notorious one, maybe you could sue me over the book, as if bilking welfare wasn't enough. Those threats from welfare are of your own making. you have proved you can be led with me (good) him, (well jesus look at it.)

    Listen a**hole, i have potreyed you as incompetant. to csa and benefits, if anything under duress. You don't deserve it tho. You went too far with me. now you are going to go the other way...but he will be hammered. and it will be me doing it. He belongs in jail. u wont be ready to talk to me for years. i want my little girl to head the other way babe, you were given a talent, intelligence, a gift, he doesnt have it, and you are using it the wrong way, write the hurricane hailey series, dear elf diaries. it'd be a smash, ask her what she would write, and adjust for comic effect. then either illustrate or have illustrated the entries, you have the template dear..its yers. No I wont sue you, haha...i will sign it away, as the last tpi project. Rainbow town was just minutia, but liitle things add up.

    To deal with me you have to be subordinate to the right that comes thru me. You could not talk to me now.

    My influence was good. Do you see that? this is not a sales pitch honey, if you were still corrupt I dont want u. i write u in the hopes you will wake up. not for any other reason. But god damn look at yourself now, my little swot, turned matahari. you see it now, get better. I will help but you wont know how. you are being shamed in a good way swotty, now rest easy. this love like you've never known. They all say "why bother' you know why i do, yer my little girl, and i am the good dad. i want take you home.

    "gary is good, we are bad" from the mouths babe, tell your child i said hi, and i am writing the elfs. you should leave the incorrect spelling and tilt the f askew a bit.


    Stone denies distributing his "book". Just plain nuts...
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    (15)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date21 May 2008 18:50
    subject Poetic genius
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 21 May Reply

    I am more of a poewtic genie than you, however if I get in, cause you hover near 99.5 I will put in a recommendation. I will let u know honey. I dont know how to interpret your non answer to the rick question except that you want to be an illusionist, but it is really aggression. You know that. So,there it is. if I am to recommend you, you will have to answer.
    G

    Refers to Poetic Genius Society which requires an IQ in the 99.5 percentile. Even though he cannot make the grade, he taunts as though he has the authority to decide if his Victim 1 would ever be admitted.
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    (16)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date29 May 2008 13:01
    subject bitch
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 29 May Reply

    The lab report confirms exposure to HPV 3 serotypes, two are carcinogenic - you are a c**t please drop dead soon

    Lies about Victim 1 infecting him with HPV
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    (17)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date29 May 2008 15:20
    subject even by condeming you
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 29 May Reply

    even by condeming you you are being protected by me, although you are
    too stupid to see it , a pap smear with dialation and cuterage will rule out cercical cancer as a cause for your bleeding, if you want to live to see your child grow up get it done, and get the simple blood tests i meantioned for anemia, dumb sh*t, and cite me once where Victim 2 has recommended this...lead level too moron.

    threatening to throw me out today, even tho the cops said she should not come back. threatened restrainiing order

    i said good then it will be recipricol as i will file for violent behavior and malicious destruction of property, and abuse. child endangerment. Something you are currently guilty of incidently. You expose your child to an unfit father, you are mentallt ill, and so is your mom, and neither will get treatment

    Now call xxxx and tell her how you are being persecuted, boo hoo, a**ole. You should be made to spend a month with every family u have f**ked over,

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    (18)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date31 May 2008 12:09
    subject apology
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 31 May Reply

    I dont have HPV as far as i know, i have no symptoms, i was trying to force you to get a pap smear because bleeding is a sign of cervical cancer it has to be rulled out, and to be honest that tissue I decribed is indicatiive of HPV or it is an old epistimotomy scare. I also didnt mean to call you a c**t.

    I never used that word, but you used me sexually, and you are way too loose for me. Get some help please, XXX is being written, I do think he will understand whty I am pissed. The cause and effect does begin wit you, and you need some sanctions in place.

    You are dangerously ill IMO. sorry about sex smaars butr christ aftteryour porno page, you do deserve itr, and you Victim 2 platonic claim. You are too loose for me. I don't like people like that. Sexailly now you disgust me, what can i say,.


    Stone admits that he lied about contracting HPV from Victim 1
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    (19)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date5 June 2008 17:10
    subject warty
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 5 Jun Reply

    have a lovely warty weekend, f**king wh*re ;)

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    (20)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date11 June 2008 14:02
    subject today
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 11 Jun Reply


    when you log int soundclick to check your stats, it is plainly visible, you have not logged into soundclick yet, but when you check your mail, you will see this, you have until today to contact tewhey by email. You know his email. If you do not, I will publish the book, I will write XXX and I will process the federal injunction.

    End this today, and ,move on with your life. We both despie each other, and you know why. I have revealed you to yourself, and others, as you well deserve, That is not my problem that you are sick and corrupt. Do some thing about it, and make your life better, meanwhile erase my stuff. The names in the book have been changed. XXX is working on it, it will be published at lulu in two weeks I will not publish it if you comply, not many except those who identify yourself to will know who you are, but you will, And the world will know how sick some people are, or at least those who read the book will.

    I will try to promote it, if you stand up and say "it's me" you hurt yourself.


    Admits stalking Victim 1 at Soundclick website. More threats. Tewhey is his (2nd) lawyer. XXX was the "editor" he hired. Please note EXTREME SWINGS in mood and temperament. Red Flag.

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    (21)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date12 June 2008 00:51
    subject why you were reported
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 12 Jun Reply

    How you brought a welfare investigation and legalism onto youself.
    1. By abadonement
    2. Breach of promise.
    3. Lying about a future
    4. Playing Mind games
    5. Involving your child in a breakup
    6. Mistreatment in XXX (looking for reasons to find fault.)
    7 Lying about immigration
    8 collusion with RK while in XXX
    9. Irresponsible emotional shift Victim 2
    and lying about
    10. Using me sexaually in xxx
    11. making me look for an apartment to break up with me.
    buying things for childs room
    12. Promising a platonic relationship
    13 ? exposing me to Victim 2's sex history
    14. Refusal to document erasure of my materials
    15. cutting me off
    16 Trashing two websites
    17 Celebrating the trashing of the sites
    18. Involving me in welfare problems putting me at risk
    19. psychological abuse, and enjoying it
    20. ? exposure to venereal agent
    21. Calling my house in April, glib about consequences.
    22. Pressuring me to marry you and divorce my wife when you were in sincere.
    23. Booking tickets without my consent xxx
    24. Threatened abuse of personal material
    25. Exposing my personal info to Victim 2
    26 wantonly entering a relationship with me with unresolved emotional issues with him, denying it, and lying about it.
    27. Glib a website you said you loved, that it was just role playing
    ? possible collusion with Victim 2 to destroy www.thetoylanders, and take xxx and book
    28. sociopathic behavior e.g. no guilt about wanton abuse.
    29. wanton disregard for my wife and kids.
    30. Glibness: after XXXXXX. go to your parents..amd sleep on "the good couch" the couch where my brother died.
    31. Using me to get to Victim 2
    32. Harssing my wife and sending adult material to my childrens email.
    33. No empathy feigning. psycho pathic emotional reversal, one as good as another mentality, user mentality, concern only about stuff you left, would lie to me to retrieve it. Shallow. Crminal mentality.
    34. Lying about promiscuous history.
    35 manipulative sexually all year, lying about ideal relationship, sudden opting for percieved better deal. Glibness, shallowness, secrecy, treating me like shit suddenly after you left, failure to tell the truth
    36 abusive pornographic website.
    37 manipulativeness.
    38 manipulating Victim 2 in my presence.
    39 mockery, failure to make amends or recognize damages
    40. Pure fucking a**hole.
    41 Failure to show empathy about my family situation or my eyesight, cutting me off like I didnt exist.
    You objected to me villifying you, i feel Ive been nice, you
    are a monster.
    42. Misrepresenting sequenc playing XXX employing Victim 2in to misrepresent me at soundclick. Making sure XXX misunderstood sequence, using phony politness to manipulative ends.
    43. Ignoring XXXXX's request.
    44. lawyers request, failure to accept peace terms, reveling in victory
    45. Aggravating my home life, jeopordizing my child wanton attempted exposure of my child to adult material.
    46 torturing and enjoying torture, playing scrabble before you dumped on the relationship, planning the dump, resuming benefits thursday Jan 2. 3 days before breakup
    47 failure to offer condelences my brothers death.
    48. Pretending to be a nice person
    49 pretending to be like me\\\51
    50. Poison lies, telling me my wife is poisoning me, tring to get me kicked out my house.
    51. using distanbce between us in sneaking and cowardly way
    52 using your child in a break up
    53,. Misrepesenting me to your family.


    Wall to wall projection by Stone and psychotic ramblings. Oddly, some of these are the same things Stone is accusing those he believes are EOPC of.

    Boo Pictures, Images and Photos

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    (22)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date14 June 2008 10:29
    subject discovery
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 14 Jun Reply



    I know what you are now: a gigantic man eating, snapping, infected Quim

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    (23)

    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date14 June 2008 11:03
    subject I got it
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 14 Jun Reply



    A Winged Flying Quim, with End stage Qausi Pestulent Venria, with Horns, and "Two Big Eyes" and a menacing stare.
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    (24)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date14 June 2008 22:54
    subject reasons
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 14 Jun Reply


    You are a pig and a sl*t. You are amoung the lowest pieces of sh*t, I have ever encountered. I was re-reading the reasons for the report, and I take back my apology for calling you a c**t. You are a c*nt, and worse. I shouln't be apologizing to you for anything, you pathetic sk*nk. Street walker have more ethics than you do...

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    (25)

    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    cc Victim 2
    date15 June 2008 02:58
    subject Victim 1 exposed
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 15 Jun Reply

    this will be posted.

    This or something similar will go in every fucking news group I can find on the fucking internet if she doesn't write tewhey sunday. I wil construct a fucking Victim 1 webpage with her xxxx page as one link, if you dont start talking sense to that stupid bitch. Her name will be f*cking indexed with some f*cking choice key words. Snap out of it Victim 2, your name will be there too.

    Fair Warning:
    xxx at betapet owned a company with me, she absconded with my cc numbers, debit numbers, equifax numbers, copyrighted songs, and writings, photos, and has already violated copyright law, by using my materials at soundclick. My lawyer asked her erase these materials, and she ignored his letter. She created a webpage at soundclick along side her children's story page, which was pornographic in nature, mocking, defamatory, where she sold porno poems, and threatened to publish and sell private information. When she did that I responded by posting that that people should not visit that site, as she is selling cds, of personal information. She has a history, according to her own brother of going after married men.

    Many families have been destroyed because of her, this is a real fact about this woman. She is sick. And so, fair warning is posted here, not to give her any personal information. She is polite, highly intelligent, but very manipulative and her real nature is totally self serving. 50,000 loss tells the story. She and her former husband are living together, and for some time, and perhaps still, she drew child support from welfare the support was supposed to come from him - she is bilking the system, she is currently being investigated by British welfare fraud agency, DPW. This woman has been warned a hundred times that if she didn't deal with her legal issue, she would be exposed. And so, here it is...the expose, get too friendly at your own risk. She is good scrabble player, play scrabble but do not converse with her. She had a criminal bent, and she is a user.
    G

    Stone actually posted this on the Betapet forum, before he was banned.
    (He was banned 3 times in total for the same thing.)

    =================================================

    (26)
    ---------- Forwarded message ----------
    From: Gary Stone
    Date: Tue, Jul 8, 2008 at 10:22 AM
    Subject: Re: sally free and easy
    Cc: SoundClick Support , Contact-Us , EOPC

    I am doing it tommorow, my wife is leaving for xxx, and I am going to record in the cellar. Victim 1 had my soundclick page zapped again because i said this is a song about a cyberpath. No name was mentioned. But I want to tell you why she is sick, and i want sc to hear this. You do remember we called for peace, and was enjoying the whole porno page bit, and sc supported her. I want to explain to you just what animals they are.

    Victim 1 has a condition called xxxxxxxxxxxxx and this is relevant. Her child got sick a year ago, and was very febrile, raging temps at night up to 104 degrees. was limp and listless. Victim 1 had no idea what was going on. These temps went on for a week, it was dismiessed as probably viral. But, I wasnt buying viral, as wasnt getting better. I was fairly convinced it was bacterial. I asked her to look at throat and tell me if tonsils were large and beat red, they were.

    I was worried Victim 1 migh get cross infected. She did.

    She started getting fevers. This is important because, she has a cortisol deficiency, and she has to take exogenous cortisol x 3 daily. Cortisol plays a role in inflamation. Inflamation helps isolate a bug in one location. In her case the tonsils. If strep leaves the tonsils, we are talking about septicemia and possible death from septic shock.

    I talked Victim 1 into going to the er, and there they denied it was strep. They denied it x 3. The reason they did is because they want to reduce cost of lab work, and tonsilectomy. I told to argue she was compromised and therefore in danger. It didnt phase them. She went private, and the private person did not test for strep but gave them both pennicillin. They were both better in 48 hrs. One week later the same thing happened. A woman walked in the hospital there, and left with the same crap. She died later from strep septicemia.

    I may very well have saved her life. I may also have helped the function of her hand, as it would have healed wrong, I asked her to get an xray.
    She had surgery as a result.

    Victim 2 and her, are animals, and they have treated me like an animal. And ally of soundclick have supporte these creeps since april. They have allowed her to mock me, they cleared three defamatory webpages, includingt the debauched porno page, you saw that and heard it. These people are as bad as Victim 2 and her.

    You dont treat somebody who might have saved your life this way. And that is what she did, and I dont intend to let her or soundclick get away with enabling animals. Victim 1 knows the truth on this, and I am not going to tolerate being treated this way, by unappreciative ignorant animals. Ill record sally tommorow and the next day. Somebody has to speak up about this low life and Victim 2. Further more this person, with superficial glibness has failed to even acknowlede the role she played in my blindness, when i was in Hampton I was reading an ordinary book. This nitemare Victim 1 knows I was, and would not even send "the blessed by angels" "perfect love" love a sorry to hear note. Not one word. This is scum. And people should know what type of scum they are. She had two pages destroyed yesterday, and I am pissed beyond words.

    Her and Victim 2 are filth, and so is ally of soundclick for supporting them, you know kev how much we tried to negotiate, and you know what she did instead. Somebody has to get this because the harm has just gone too far. These two are lying animals, and kev you know your impression was she was enjoying this...she was, she was taunting somebody who was going blind. And she knew it, she was totally lacking in empathy. This is a characteristic of NPD, I am a certified RN. in the state of mass, board registered 207341, and I have seen these types before. They are superficial, manipulative, and extremely dangerous for that reason. I will not have her damaging my name or my music. The gaunlet is down on this witch. G


    Note Stone's Savior complex and assumption of a diagnosis he can not possibly give.
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    (27)
    fromGary Stone
    reply-toGary Stone
    to xxx
    date18 August 2008 18:14
    subject cart and the horse are.
    mailed-bycomcast.net
    hide details 18 Aug Reply


    Victim 1
    You have been fooling people as to where the cart and the horse are.

    To welfare center:

    Somebody needs to get Victim 1 & 2 to chat with some hard boiled legal people who do not fall for the "poor harrassed woman" ploy. These people have displayed a criminal mentality. I want legal people to plow a little deeper into this, and you people to investigate this without sympathy and crying towels - get those prone to tears off of this case. Their evidence is at hotmail/google/yahoo erased and unerased emails and chats

    2003 thru may 14 2008.

    Please investigate Victim 2 status, his and in Deember or November whether Victim 1 sent codes to admin site of www.thetoylanders.com

    for Victim 2 to enter that site, investigate transfer of images of pictures I took, sent to Victim 2 Nov - dec 2007. Whether plotting occured to sell her apt for his sake - whether she reported that sale or the sale of the first home, and see Victim 2 himself advocating welfare deceptions, lying about my credit, etc, see Victim 2 and her communcating since 2003 - resumng welfare in 2008 Jan see how i opened an equifax account to prove Victim 2 wrong. He was my credit is in the 700 range. V. good. But I lost the equifax url and there are many, and I asked elaine feb, march, april for right url and passwords. She denied me, and now Victim 2 knows my history better than I.

    Seed communications Victim 1 made from library to Victim 2 (her real plans) in jan 2008 - lies to me -chucklings with Victim 2 then see they lived with xxxxx, and played games with the only way i could earn a living at soundclick my music, since going blind.... probably sending the link to the xxxx pages others for a laugh - now they deny those pages exist. She maintains the privatized page to abuse, and nothing else.

    See now, how she denies she made those pages, poses as a nurse, speaking for a company in Boston, attempting to get me to write on that nurse, and that company, thereby defaming that nurse, and that company, etc and contaminate a legal case. This was their hope.

    and see how phony legal people come in and assume responsibilty for her.

    See how she colludes with soundclick to destroy my music, by having them rearrange message posts for archiving in May Not to mediate - but to stoke a legal case to get more unearned income.

    And possibly they wrote my former editor causing her perhaps to move off line, destroying her business. She was working on a book that was never to be a book as emails show, it was therapy. Now, it will be a book

    The cause of Victim 1s problems with me is Victim 1 - I simply respond. Victim 2 does not want clarity, proper closure, as he is jealous of Victim 1 and I. He, has been fueling this...

    Have Victim 2 prove his legality in that country. And having proved all of this - ask your self, are there additional sanctions to be applied, when if they are proved, warrant a criminal record.

    As that would be the only inhibiting action. It is they now, who have stepped into the criminal realm, by impersonating professionals licensed in this State. Check my license, Ma, 201341 at the mass board of nurses, one has to pass a moral exam to even be tested - nop citations...yet these creeps would dare to pose as nurses they couldnt hold a candle to, and rejoice at the destruction of my career by anothe liar who said " he sleeps on the job" "he threatend to pull my eyeballs out if I sleep"
    another who is going to court.

    This moral exam would disqualify both of these a**holes. I want something done about these people - a bridge too far, when they rationalize I caused my brothers death, and i molested my daughter they violate everything that is deemed good, and just and legal in the physical and spiritual realms.

    . I am very very disturbed by libeal approaches to hard crime and by now - and now, if there was any doubt before stow it - they are criminal.

    thx
    Gary Stone RN licensed in Mass. US
    who had his career destroyed by other liars who failed to take responsibilty.
    This a** has this nurse from XXX arguing my responsibilty in my brothers death, naming him XXX big give away, as that is not posted, saying they know geri mullen, not online. This, is Victim 1 with too much time on her hands, and Victim 2, drug abuser, illegal who has stood in the way of mediating this problem -
    stokes it, and encourages Victim 1 to earn money by sueing me. Victim 1s privacy is everything to you people but she thinks nothing of mine.
    selling my info, plastering threats on her webpages, etc. You know the story there.
    She also thinks nothing of a coworkers privacy
    To put it plain: she's a criminal.
    and thinks like one, and a dangerous one as her educated accent fools people into thinking that it must be the other one. It is not, it is her. A woman can be a criminal. Get it thru your heads please. Remove her crying towels and get her to confront the truth about her history.
    She was not born to reinvent the law to suit herself or time honored morals - she is pathology run amuck. If something isnt done I will write this story for the london times.

    Victim 1 has always been warned before I take any action, many times. Those emails there
    here is the relationshio
    Victims 1 & 2 are malicious - they are busting my balls and having fun - they get report - they retaliate.
    End this cycle now! Impound her precious IBM think pad, and introduce her to the signifigcance of her actions.
    and delete my Goddamed information.

    Gary Stone


    More unreadable ramblings of Stone exhorting the govt to step in and expose Victim 1. Note that he accuses Victim 1 of 'masquerading as a nurse' with his ex-employer; something he now says EOPC is doing! Stone needs to make up his mind -- he's such a martyr.

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    fromGary Stone
    toJames TXXXX (his lawyer)
    date6 September 2008 03:13
    subject Just like you.
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 6 Sep Reply

    hey Victim 1, I have another secret. [My lawyer] is sociopath. Just like you. you know y? it's because he's a complete fake. Just like you. haha Damned right I am 3 sheets to the wind on 6 beers. I wish had more.

    Do you want to kill me Victim 1. You have a perfect opportunity. I am at a hotel. Do you know why? My wife. Two words. "my wife/"

    Just do it. End it Victim 1, Why dont you and [my lawyer] get married.You could raose a new breed- a generation of psycho paths, Hey Victim 1, ssssshhhh dont tell anybody, but, I know what you are,,,,and I know what he is.....do you know what a psycho path is?
    its somebody who lives by 0ne principle, "maximizing advantage" no morals..., morals are vestigial. Did I tell you I was shit faced? ha? I dont even drink. .but I did tonight.

    Hey Victim 1? do you know what truth is? I do. its simple. Its what is. Goodnight. Hey Victim 1, do you know who showed up to clean up puke? It was my wife. Not you. Lookitup. My old man used to say that. SOCIOPATH. Did tell you I was shit faced? Good night Victim 1. Who was the french lady in the video, it wasnt you.


    Stone actually sent this to his own lawyer!
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    (29)
    fromGary Stone
    t0 Victim 1
    date12 September 2008 14:49
    subject sack the bastard
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 12 Sep Reply

    I am pointing Victim 2s posts and his anon posts the xxx pages to xxxx his welfare history,and his legal status, his conspiracy to defraud welfare, his use of hashish etc, to xxx. You will have to pay consequences for these activities. Hopefully they will sack the bastard. You can just change your age, as I will be reporting him based on your testimony, they will get th headers for the posts, the xxx pages you made while you and he were bilking welfare, and choice qoutes from the so called legal case exchange such as "cant you just say you got the money" Id encourage them to check his legal status. You went too far with the last attempt, and now you and he will suffer the consequences.



    This is about the time Stone starts "exposing" Victim 2 to Victim 2's employer. It's all assumed nonsense. Stone is merely exposing himself as a nutjob.
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    (30)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date13 September 2008 01:27
    subject hpv infected quim.
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 13 Sep Reply

    by the way, every time you change your age, we think you still love us, we don't love you you silly little wench. We see you as an hpv infected quim.

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    (31)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date13 September 2008 01:41
    subject We dont want to be conscious anymore.
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 13 Sep Reply

    why dont you use your witchy powers to do us in, you stupid c**t. We dont want to be conscious anymore -.after all what do we have have to look at. haha.

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    (32)

    fromGary Stone
    Victim 1
    date30 September 2008 15:17
    subject serious shit
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 30 Sep (13 days ago) Reply

    From the start, you were involved with Victim 2, and possibly his coworkers, to get me to think you would were x. Only she would do, and you do know what your objective was... you would have pushed that button to send the url to x as you knew her email, and to the organization to prejudice a legal case, and thereby obstruct justice...and to get me sued by x. That is two crimes...obstruction, and another involving mixed civil and criminal charges, maybe as many as three in there.

    You thought it would pan out to have only the effect you wanted. But as I suggested, it could have had a disastrous effect on x or the program. Using the info, is participating in a conspiracy to obstruct justice is a fact.

    But there are so many implications here that it boggles to think of them. Now, nobody understands what it is u have done,except maybe interested people looking at this at word press or oranjo, and occasional interested visitor.

    And, I do really need to expose it, as afterward, you started a new plot equally criminal (shut downs with a goal in mind, using perjury, threatening ISPS company resources

    This is really very serious shit. It is a another precipice - but for documentation purposes I have to have this escalated to protect myself, and others on the Internet from your mindset.
    .
    Last nite Victim 1 I was having a fairly peaceful sleep...until a disturbed fragment of a dream appear in which I saw a snippet of an email of letter you were typing to somebody named X explaining "rocky horror" an illusion to something we talked about before..and you typing something about a contract...with the toylanders..that you had written one...I flashed to the e sig I sent you in Decemberin the dream, and woke in sweats...

    Now Victim 1, this type of stuff is stuff I wanted you to document erasure of in December made that e sig in Microsoft Paint, as you did..and you know as well as me, you sig and mine were badly formed using a mouse, you pasted mine and yours into a lease agreement which you breached in January.

    There was no contract with TPI, you and I and xxx made a humorous contract in emails in Februaryof last year. I doubt my dream is prescient in anyway of something you are actually doing, at the time I was dreaming it. But, the dream reveals to me, my unconscious understanding of your level of corruption at present..your plotting at present is you are digging the hole wider and deeper, motivated by a desperate need to cover the last plot and by discrediting me....

    I have written archive.org, as certain urls from the 2007 from the old website are missing - in particular those related to you. If Viotim 2 has used any of my emails. or my authority to remove those urls...the motivation is obvious alter reality to support your current behavior...the presence of my data on your computer has already been used for theft, copyright violations sexual harassment and criminal plots. That data you said you zapped. Saying you would erase it was not enough, it needed to be documented.

    But you threatened me with it (that data) after you said you erased it, there were two witnesses to that threat...the e sig was created for one purpose only to lease an apartment. after that, it's use is illegal.

    You have stolen an abused TPI company property, and In your desperation to cover yourself, you are still at it.
    The publication of xxxxx , if anything,was premature Victim 1, as that book is still being written here. because your behavior has lapsed into the criminal now.
    that book describes continued abuse by a person who, by virtue of taking her pathology on line - is now a new species called cyberpath. It's publication briefly on lulu was done because of this activity you indulge now.

    If do not like that label, cease and desist, I am waiting for archive.orgs
    reply. If url's have been removed, criminal charges will be levied against you and Victim 2. If do not stop this activity, that book XXXX will be offered, with XXXXXXXXX for free at the Toylanders Music site.


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    (33)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date1 October 2008 18:13
    subject bingo!
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 1 Oct (12 days ago) Reply

    the only way survive is to show the female listening the to Victim 1s cries of persecution the f**king c**t emails" haha. But, someday some gonna say, " no wait just one darned minute...nerv mind the c words look at this!" and bingo! NO fn wonder hes calling her a c word. haha

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    (34)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date2 October 2008 01:43
    subject "bushit"
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 2 Oct (12 days ago) Reply

    yup my wife would love to see you in court



    weight jury black

    "oh he said fn c word"
    jury "bushit"
    "oh he made my child upset
    "bushit"
    "oh he was disturbing my lovely family
    "bushit"
    "OH OH OH"
    "bushit bushit bushit"


    More of Stone's fantasizing about court proceedings that will never happen
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    (35)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date4 October 2008 21:22
    subject stopit
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 4 Oct (9 days ago) Reply

    I am at a motel, because my sister will not let me live at my mothers. Claiming she'd just paid to cleaned it *using my mothers money* she threw out my stuff. I am paying 500 a week to stay here, I cant go home because three weeks ago,. in retaliation for me calling the police last summer.

    Meanwhile she is acusing me of attemptimg suicide. And demanding I eat. I said " I am not going to eat" she tht you eat when you overdose, you dont you puke. I said It in front of the cops when they got there " no, I wont" the acusation was proved false, but only after spending three days in the looney bin.

    I had taken I prescribed amount of med, 1mg Klonopin, usually I take .5 mg 1/2 mg, but I can take a mg a day. I did it to screen her out from constant harrassment over what? You Victim 1h. For one month she demanded to see xxxx, I caved, and this was pay back. The shrink said "you arent suicidal"

    I said no shit. And told him about the previous year. and when it rolls around to her, how the fn worlld knows about us, and how when I walk out side all the neighbors look at me with contempt and his fuckin jaw dropped.

    Precisely the enviroment I described in feb when you sent xxxxxx.

    Now his my point - it isnt over is it? you are still doing it, when I asked you for an apology sent to her, you still sent Boo Hoo.

    and refused to document erasure. You need to stop this Victim 1 ..
    think of the back pressure on me you
    Victim 2
    my kids
    the neighbors
    tewhey
    glaucoma
    dmca shutdowns
    plots

    do something Victim 1 you are going to kill me.


    Stone still blame-shifting and projecting like crazy. Denial that he's done this to himself continues.
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    (36)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date5 October 2008 13:39
    subject dead sure, or dead.
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 5 Oct (8 days ago) Reply

    fiesty aren't we. You'd better be dead sure, or dead.


    DEATH THREAT
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    (37)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 1
    date6 October 2008 14:33
    subject pay for it..
    mailed-bygmail.com
    hide details 6 Oct (7 days ago) Reply

    eventually everbody important will know what you are...
    Victim 2's employer
    fbi
    soc sec
    consumer protection...
    lulu
    payloadz
    oranjo


    you wont be able to hit on anybody on the internet, and Victim 2 will keep you from going anywhere and you will be boxed in and controlled, which is right where you belong...then everyone wil be safe. You escalated it, now you are going to pay for it..l


    Stone boasts about some of the places he has reported (or plans to report) Victim 1 to, with the aim of "boxing in and controlling" us. Many cyberpaths think by building up "reports" with the authorities they can turn they persecution fantasies into reality. This is pure pre-emptive strike and sick.
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    (38)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date5 October 2008 15:07
    subject you get pellet.
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 5 Oct (8 days ago) Reply

    Y do do you reinforce it?
    because like a lab rat you get pellet. (sex)


    BOO Pictures, Images and Photos

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    (39)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date27 September 2008 05:21
    subject pauncho
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 27 Sep Reply

    FBI, if they took this, they'd prove it was u in 24 hrs. Even if they gave it to trainees as a homework assignment. in the internet division. Hypothetical scenario
    "you guys, anon post, here's the headers, who posted it, you have 24 hrs, then you get an A"

    they'd get it in three hrs. First theyd justify, and within 1 hr thed have all of your info, and Victim 2s, to establish whether it's feasible that you did it. Then google out. And if it stops...they'd find where.

    And that person would be intimidated, and give you up."

    Boss: 2hrs later Find out who it is yet?
    trainees: yes sir its pancho
    Boss: well home or business?
    Trainees: business sir
    Boss: what business?
    Trainees: xxxxxxxxxxxx
    Boss:ok, now the question is, be careful
    did pancho hacth this plot?
    Trainees: yes sir, its pancho
    Boss: would you arrest him?
    Trainees: yes sir
    Boss: no you wouldnt u simps
    now go home and go home and do your homework...

    Theyd call interpol, as pancho aint their guy.

    Now whether or not Victim 2 this is the scenario...it'd be that simple for them. I dont know how you did it, but it had better be good, if they take it up. fail safe, or else.

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    (40)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date14 September 2008 22:22
    subject Sleaze with cheese.
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 14 Sep Reply

    If I ever meet up with you Victim 2, I'm going to name the bones I'm going to break in latin before I break them.

    What is wrong with her? Is she soft? What the f**k does she see in you you miserable little coward. If you met up with me you'd run. Sleaze with cheese.

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    (41)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date14 September 2008 22:09
    subject leave her alone.
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 14 Sep Reply

    Do you see your computer as your d**k? Ha? is it your toy. You hacked the toylanders site too, you and your friends. Victim 2 gave you the codes. But in truth you're a d**kless wonder.

    You'd need a BS in computer science, and one yer post grad. Maybe you should learn how to use your d**k legally for a change. And stop dragging Victim 1 down with you, leave her alone.


    First Stone accuses Victim 1 & 2 of being in cahoots. Now it's: Victim 2 is using Victim 1... the crazed mental leaps never stop.
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    (42)
    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date11 September 2008 20:44
    subject IQ
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 11 Sep Reply

    We have you now dude, you shouldn't screw with somebody with an IQ, but crying in your beer is still an option.

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    (43)

    fromGary Stone
    to Victim 2
    date8 September 2008 22:25
    subject Re: well well
    mailed-bygmail.com

    hide details 8 Sep Reply

    You can tell Victim 1 that xxxx is published on LULU.com
    the photo is used for three reasons
    1. it own it, it is TPI
    2. She used it in violation of personal rights and copyright law
    3. I took the photo
    4. She shared it with you
    5. She used it freely on soundclick to sexually harass me.
    6. You agreed with that harassement and did to me what you would not want done to yourself.
    I am sorry the price for soundclick was so high - but you stood in the way of mediation B**b, er...Bob. Simply security request denied for sadistic reasons. So there you have it. The anon emails clinched it. I dont understand why she follows the lead of somebody like you. But...so it goes, she's bent on being as vile as you i guess.
    G
    - Hide quoted text -

    On Sat, Sep 6, 2008 at 8:34 PM, Gary Stone wrote:
    I suppose welfare found the business plan interesting, will you say the info is unreal unless it is archived? I noticed you quickly made it private. we have to wonder why. However, the info can still be obtained.

    Was the an*l rape post yours? A fantasy of yours I guess.
    G

    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    This one was sent as an example of Stone's continued harassment of his victims (sent recently) and his fantasies that EOPC is in "cahoots" with them, that EOPC is being PAID to be a 'cyberhitman'. His continued ranting only shows how disordered he is.

    fromGary Stone


    CC: cyberpaths@gmail.com,

    dateSun, Nov 2, 2008 at 7:39 AM

    subject Goin home.

    mailed-bygmail.com


    The bloggers understand this situation very well,

    I have recieved some indications of that, and none post anonymously. (the voices in his head?)

    I will save them in case someday you wake up and you care

    to see them. I told them I will post nothing that reinforces my point, or

    cyberpunks and all of his sympathies, are from himself. (references to EOPC)

    wake up. I am taking two days to move, today and tommorow. Goin home. Get some help and eventually I will take this down, but I may generalize to cyberpath, citing a nameless example as proof of his dubious enterprise. It be worthwhile. A little culture, a little cleavage, a stress illness cop, and an awnry old man, is his evidence. He's dangerous, and so are you. (again refers to EOPC and deems our information dangerous and baseless. LOL) G
     
    We truly hope Stone checks himself into a mental health clinic for intensive help. He needs its.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~ 



    11/26/08 Update -- to our readers who asked:

    Stone's conspiracy theories don't stop and neither do his crazy postings. He truly thinks he's more important than he really is. Here's some of the latest from his ever-changing blog (erase, rewrite, blather on...) Our comments are in dark blue & italics:



    Fighter, [Victims]: The cyberpathic criminals (whenever Stone learns a new word, via EOPC, he uses it ad naseaum against us, his victims and anyone else who stands in his raging path. Cyberpath, psychopath, paranoid... Here's another new word for him since he finds us so interesting: Mirroring.)

    We will develop this story later, but it describes Fighters conspiracy with [victims 1 & 2] to obstruct justice in a civil employment case. He is a liar in saying he obtained the MCAD document from the MCAD, he got the info from [victims 1 + 2], [they] sent him the MCAD filing from Bhchp.org, and also sent the EEOC summary that I wrote.

    (Just to clarify to our readers - we received or were sent NO SUCH DOCUMENTATION. Proferring an opinion online is protected speech, as our disclaimer on the right says.

    We also make it clear we aren't lawyers, police or doctors. So obviously Stone is scared that someone will find out what a wack-job he is.

    In another post on his blog he swears he's 'not paranoid' or a ''psychopath' but 'a nice guy'. rrrrriiiiiiggggghhhhhttt....

    We aren't trying to influence any legal cases; we don't have that kind of time nor is Stone important enough for us to do so.)


    I found the article with the help of another nurse at the nursing group, it was buried in the google archives, there isn't even a mention of a law case. This is an illegal and sinister attempt to judge a case online.

    (Again, proferring OPINION isn't illegal or sinister to anyone but Stone. And, something EOPC never did )

    But it is even more sinister when we analyze it. He [Fighter] conspired with [victims]. If you his posing as a nurse was off, look forward to how off his behavior really is, this story will be developed on Friday, and thru the weekend.
    from Stone's blog - which was closed down by Wordpress for defamatory statements and breach of contract.


    (We never "posed as a nurse" anywhere. In fact we have seen him accuse us of this elsewhere and frankly, we have no idea what the heck he's raging about. EOPC has other victims, other cases, and is involved with a number of victim support organizations and we don't play petty online games. We don't have time. Only Stone the conspiracy theorist thinks we do.

    The things Stone accuses us of doing, having done or being is just unreal. God himself couldn't keep up. His one post, entitled:
    Fighter, XXXXX: the cyberpathic criminals is nothing short of insanity. We don't send anonymous emails or make anonymous postings. We do the exposure and move on. Obviously we have rattled Stone's cage with truth.  So whoever is taunting or calling Stone out; it ain't us. And frankly, his confabulations must be the source of amusement for a variety of people considering the far-flung accusations. Every couple weeks his blog is rewritten with even more out-there talk and assumptions and theories and threats.


    More from Stone's blog:

    this page describes Fighters conspiracy with XXX and XXX to obstruct justice in a civil employment case...

    And it indicts fighter, I will edit this later and show you more of what fighter rationalizes… In order to edit, I have to pull all of this off, and put it in word process, wordpress has a window for typing that is only as large as this paragraph. In addition, I am legally blind, so I will pull it together during the next few days. This fighter is a monster, and so is XXXX These are horrible people.


    --------------------
    The emails Stone is so sure came from us? Not one of us have ever even seen them! We have no clue who wrote them or where they came from. We are as clueless to their origin as Stone is, in actuality. That's not our style nor do any of us do or write things like that. He accuses us of removing things from this site we haven't and of having legal documents we have never seen.

    And -- knock knock - reality calling: 'conspiracy to obstruct justice'? Unbelievable... LOL

    But Stone's so enraged by being exposed for the lunatic he is -- he (like MANY of our other exposed Cyberpaths) is going to blame us and the targets of his rage for everything & anything he can think of.
    This is all very indicative of what we believe is Stone's distrubance -- which includes his tenuous grasp on reality.

    boo hoo kitty Pictures, Images and Photos

    Poor Stone. Heading for the age of 60 with a failed life. Out of job with a long record of insubordinate behavior he goes online and meets someone. Another aspiring writer, and decides to help her. When that doesn't work out and a relationship with her doesn't work out -- he tantrums like the emotional child he is. Wah wah wah!

    On the 'stage of Stone's life story' things MUST be how he WRITES them to be. A fantasy trial against the woman who 'wronged him,' a fantasy trial against EOPC for being so heinous as to give him a reality check, a fantasy trial because the woman he wanted wouldn't let him overstep the copyright on HER materials. He's a wronged man -- nobody loves him -- he's the victim of conspiracy upon conspiracy -- he's calamity -- he's Don Quixote -- he's a martyr -- no one understands his pain -- he's an undiscovered genius -- poor poor Gary Stone must continue to rail against the evil forces of REALITY and GROWING UP.

    As you can see he was up & online bright and early and logs in every day about the same time during November 2008! The authorities can barely keep up with the hits, and hours he spends on his victim's webpage so we should feel honored he checks up on us, huh?

    Domain Name comcast.net ? (Network)
    IP Address 24.128.87.# (Comcast Cable)
    ISP Comcast Cable
    Location
    Continent : North America
    Country : United States (Facts)
    State : Massachusetts
    City : Medford
    Language English (U.K.)
    en-gb
    Operating System Microsoft WinXP
    Browser Internet Explorer 7.0
    Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 7.0; Windows NT 5.1; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648)
    Javascript version 1.3
    Monitor
    Resolution : 1024 x 768
    Color Depth : 32 bits
    Time of Visit Nov 28 2008 8:45:13 am
    Last Page View Nov 28 2008 8:47:17 am
    Visit Length 2 minutes 4 seconds
    Page Views 2
    Referring URL http://www.google.co...yberpath, gary stone
    Search Engine google.com
    Search Words site:cyberpaths.blogspot.com cyberpath, gary stone
    Visit Entry Page http://cyberpaths.bl...s-online-dating.html
    Visit Exit Page http://cyberpaths.bl...8_10_01_archive.html

    and he thinks he's being quite "technical" and "cagey" when he uses a non-U.S. search engine:


    Domain Name comcast.net ? (Network)
    IP Address 24.128.87.# (Comcast Cable)
    ISP Comcast Cable
    Location Continent : North America
    Country : United States (Facts)
    State : Massachusetts
    City : Medford
    Lat/Long : 42.4247, -71.1112 (Map)
    Distance : 452 miles
    Language English (U.K.)
    en-gb
    Operating System Microsoft WinXP
    Browser Internet Explorer 8.0
    Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 8.0; Windows NT 5.1; Trident/4.0; GTB5; .NET CLR 1.1.4322; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.30; .NET CLR 3.0.04506.648)
    Javascript version 1.3
    Monitor
    Resolution : 1024 x 768
    Color Depth : 32 bits
    Referring URL http://www.google.co...e%2C cyberpath&meta=
    Search Engine google.co.uk
    Search Words gary stone, cyberpath
    Visit Entry Page http://cyberpaths.bl...lates-craziness.html
    Visit Exit Page http://cyberpaths.bl...lates-craziness.html

    Stone's proxy:
    IP - 173.29.167.95

    Stone explodes, however, if he even smells a proxy or foreign IP on his sites.

    Like all pathologicals - Stone can't fathom he made a mistake. His pathology includes obsessiveness and lack of impulse control so he can't move on and has made keeping this up his full time job now -- cyberstalking, taking frequent screenshots &  downloading them, writing & rewriting history, misinterpreting or putting some odd 'hidden meaning' to everyone and everything on his latest blog and playing martyr. If only he could find more productive things to do with his time - like being with his family or intensive therapy.

    Stone may have the potential to be dangerous if he doesn't stop soon.