THE REAL BRAD DORSKY - A PERVERT & PREDATOR

MEET THE REAL BRAD DORSKY
BEFORE you read these, bear in mind - Dorsky had been chatting off & on with Target #1 since she was about 15 or 16, building up her trust in him and waiting for her to be of legal age for FIVE YEARS. He convinced her he was a virgin, she was the only girl he cared for or wanted, despite having met only once and him leaving a few minutes after meeting her. He told her in the years prior, repeatedly, that he LOVED her. He knew the Target was naive and he manipulated, controlled, brainwashed and lied to her. In short: HE GROOMED HER!! So what might be obvious to us - would not be obvious to a victim who's been brainwashed!

In these chats much of the explicit chat (98% from DORSKY) has been edited. Sections have been edited due to the nature or extraneousness of the chats. These are here to give a PRIME example of how the Cyberpath's real agenda (in DORSKY's case - Control, Sex Addiction & Perversion) comes up and notice how the Target has been twisted up psychologically to think this is OK or not to question too much. Typical Cyberpath - Dorsky pushes her comfort zone. shows ZERO respect & ignores her boundaries and by now he has her so confused - her normal good sense isn't working (see article on this site: "LURES OF THE ONLINE PREDATOR")

Some adult content so please be aware!
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Target #1: I am SO sorry if I am bothering you...I don't feel like sleeping, so decided to come back online..and I saw you were on and thought "Maybe I'll IM Brad and see what happens". If you are busy, just let me know, and I'll find smth else to do. I've never done anything like this before, and I don't want to bother you.....but I just want to talk for a little while.
BradDorsky: whats up?
Target #1: hey
Target #1: im bored
Target #1: i just want to be entertained LOL
BradDorsky: really
Target #1: yes
BradDorsky: really how
Target #1: well thats why I messaged you..you always know just what to say to make me smile
BradDorsky: ok so whats going on?
Target #1: not much i can't sleep. what are you doing?
BradDorsky: just chating with my boyfriend why?
Target #1: boyfriend?
Target #1: LOL
BradDorsky: ya **** lol silly
Target #1: LOL
BradDorsky: he's my bottom (right to the sexual references, not even polite about it either)
Target #1: like slave?
BradDorsky: ya about ### you
BradDorsky: we want to **** ****.
Target #1: =-O
Target #1: doesnt sound good
Target #1: i don't even know him (exactly! you're a person not a hooker)
BradDorsky: we will **** you silly
Target #1: but im scared.....=-O
BradDorsky: don't be scared
Target #1: why not?
BradDorsky: just give us what we want (PERVERT!!! do you even CARE about her?)
BradDorsky: come on
Target #1: but what if i'm not ok with it? (he doesn't care)
Target #1: i mean, i don't even know what that guy looks like
BradDorsky: 2 or no deal (Dorsky continually brought up 2somes & 3somes to this poor girl)
Target #1: well what do i get out of it?
BradDorsky: two huge **** *******!
BradDorsky: we are going to **** in all ********
[edited due to explicit language]
BradDorsky: can we **** you
Target #1: what do you mean????
BradDorsky: just go nuts with you
BradDorsky: us having our way with you doing what ever we want
Target #1: i dont get it
Target #1: so theres no point in saying that
BradDorsky: what ****?
Target #1: yea
BradDorsky: ok
Target #1: and that depends on what you want
BradDorsky: everything
BradDorsky: we want to invade *****
Target #1: what does your friend know about me? does he know what i look like? or nothing at all?
BradDorsky: *****
Target #1: does he know what i look like?
BradDorsky: no send him a pic.s
Target #1: just tell him to go to my website
BradDorsky: I need the like I misplaced it (DORSKY probably never even saved it after all those years - probably too many other women - didn't want to get caught going to the wrong site!)
BradDorsky: thanks
BradDorsky: I want to **********
BradDorsky: no I want to ***************
BradDorsky: ************* to your photo's right now.
Target #1: which one of the pics do you like most
Target #1: most
Target #1: my personal fav is the last 1
BradDorsky: it dose not want to load you must have too many guys ******* to it
Target #1: no click again
Target #1: you there?
BradDorsky: ya I was.... nevermind (you disgusting pig)
BradDorsky: **** said when are you coming to **** again he wants to **** you!
Target #1: tell him i dont know (and tell him NO WAY she doesn't even KNOW him)
BradDorsky: lol
BradDorsky: ya me and *** want to do something about it''
Target #1: what?
BradDorsky: ***********
Target #1: how?
BradDorsky: what do you mean how
BradDorsky: all ways possible
Target #1: lol
BradDorsky: I want to **************t
BradDorsky: then shove it in your ***************
BradDorsky: too bad we can't jump on the next red eye and and *************
BradDorsky: what
Target #1: i have to go to bed....
BradDorsky: use your **** and think of me.
Target #1: i dont have ******
Target #1: think of me? (Brad dearie - you have disgusted us all, she needs to get away from the computer!!)
BradDorsky: I need to put plastic on my sheets
BradDorsky: lol
Target #1: ohhhh
BradDorsky: ****** tracks
BradDorsky: lol
Target #1: wish you would come up here soon
BradDorsky: not even a *****
BradDorsky: ya
BradDorsky: man I wish i was gat
BradDorsky: gay
BradDorsky: I have more dude that want me then chicks (hmm.... freudian slip?)
Target #1: those chicks are idiots they dont know what they are missing
Target #1: but i do
BradDorsky: for a what?
Target #1: i really have to go sorry
BradDorsky: can I do what ever I want to you? (you don't give up do you BRAD?)
BradDorsky: ok sweet dreams later:-(
Target #1: ttyl and sweet dreams
Target #1: :-*
BradDorsky: later
BradDorsky: :-*
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BradDorsky: Hi
Target #1: hey Brad! How are you?
BradDorsky: sick and you ?
Target #1: oh that sux...i hope you will get better soon
Target #1: im ok..bored.
BradDorsky: thanks
BradDorsky: why?
BradDorsky: I left my job.
Target #1: are you working somewhere now?
Target #1: another place?
BradDorsky: my last working day is friday and my last day with the company is 6/21
Target #1: i see
Target #1: what are you going to do after you leave?
BradDorsky: no Im taking some time off
Target #1: cool
Target #1: youll be like me..im not working anywhere this summer
BradDorsky: Im going out to ****** for a little bit. and maybe ****.(dangles him coming to see her - as he does consistently in chats - just to keep her on the hook)
Target #1: ****, really?
Target #1: do you know when by any chance?
BradDorsky: I not sure
BradDorsky: I have to find tickets and hotels stuff like that
Target #1: well that is nice to know. i am going to **** in August...
BradDorsky: when I find out more I will email you.
Target #1: sure
BradDorsky: so what else are you up to.
Target #1: i will be in ****
Target #1: oh yea, and Im going to a concert
BradDorsky: what concert?
Target #1: Marilyn Manson..believe it or not!
BradDorsky: when?
Target #1: July ##
BradDorsky: what are you going to wear?
Target #1: lol...i havent thought about that one yet.
BradDorsky: leather ? something S&M like? (Dorsky wastes NO TIME does he? pervert)
Target #1: not really. not leather.
Target #1: ill wear my collar maybe
BradDorsky: is he going to be near ****?
Target #1: he is coming to **** sometime in August with Ozzfest
Target #1: check his website, the tour dates section
BradDorsky: I don't want to go to ozz fest ozz dose nouthing for me.
[edited for clarity - extraneous chat]
BradDorsky: sorry working (on other targets - must have about 4 chat windows going? RIGHT?)
BradDorsky: bad **** bad I should come up there just to spank you!
BradDorsky: lol but you would like it too much.
Target #1: how do you know if I would like it (right - Dorsky's psycho!)
BradDorsky: I put two and two together (the teeny brain & the massive ego you have?).
BradDorsky: regardless you will be in trouble.
Target #1: in trouble with whom?
Target #1: you?
BradDorsky: me and my friend. (2some AGAIN!!! seems he's afraid of anything intimate, HUH?)
Target #1: i guess ill find out more when the time comes...
BradDorsky: lol will you in more ways then one.
BradDorsky: I would hate to be you. I see you being bedridden in your future.
Target #1: is that so?
BradDorsky: yes It might be to much for you to handle.
BradDorsky: you will find out soon enouth.
BradDorsky: thats a good thing. like the saying go's I will do you up right! (no thanks)
BradDorsky: brb
BradDorsky: so what were we talking about? (you mean what were YOU talking about, Brad?)
BradDorsky: I know you will be it trouble when I come up that way.
Target #1: hmmm well we will just have to see
BradDorsky: lol
BradDorsky: I'm going to ************
BradDorsky: :-X
BradDorsky: lol
BradDorsky: any new photo's on the site.
Target #1: so, sorry
Target #1: i mean no
Target #1: now that youre asking..do you have any new photos of yourself?
BradDorsky: no nouthing new
BradDorsky: once I'm better I will take some.
Target #1: cool
Target #1: well i should go to bed....
BradDorsky: lol good night
Target #1: hehehe yea good night to you too
Target #1: ttyl email me when you have new info...sweet dreams
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BradDorsky: Hey *****
Target #1: Hi Brad!
Target #1: How are you?
BradDorsky: Whats up?
BradDorsky: good and you?
Target #1: i'm fine...just taking a break from schoolwork tonight
BradDorsky: cool
BradDorsky: I've been thinking alot about you as of late.
Target #1: about me?
BradDorsky: ya:-)
Target #1: what did i do?
BradDorsky: Don't you meen what do you do to me:-D (sheesh Brad, do you EVER take a breath? or is sex and objectifying women ALL you think about??)
BradDorsky: lol
Target #1: i don't know... ;-)
BradDorsky: I don't know you have been on my mind as of late
Target #1: in what way?
BradDorsky: If I get laid off this year, would you have time to see me if I came there?
Target #1: wow, you are planning to come here?
BradDorsky: Thats if you can make time for me and if I get laid off .
Target #1: i probably would
BradDorsky: I would have to get my truck fixed too.
BradDorsky: You probably would ? So your too busy?
BradDorsky: I see
Target #1: well, i can always find the time if you were to come here
BradDorsky: Well I will if I get laid off.
Target #1: for how long would you come here if you got laid off?
BradDorsky: If I got laid off my last day would be **** and if I came up it would be for a week.
Target #1: oh in the fall? ok...
Target #1: i just thought it would be summer
Target #1: but it makes no difference to me
BradDorsky: Is that a problem? (once again - dangling MAYBE I WILL SEE - if the person you are chatting with doesn't try make firm to get together with you in 6 months, No MATTER what the distance - BAIL!! and do a background check)
Target #1: nah i just assumed it would be summer because people usually get time off in the summer
Target #1: but its not a problem at all
BradDorsky: lol not ***** thats our busyest time
Target #1: true
Target #1: what would you be doing here for a whole week?
BradDorsky: I want my fill of *****!
BradDorsky: lol
BradDorsky: If you know what I mean! (yeah, sigh - we all do you addict. GET HELP BRAD!!)
BradDorsky: brb
BradDorsky: Hey
BradDorsky: lol are you still there?
Target #1: yea
BradDorsky: So do you live in ***********?
Target #1: i live in a suburb
Target #1: i take the bus and the subway to school, which is downtown
BradDorsky: So if I want to get a hotel what would you say would be easy for you to see me?
Target #1: i think it would be quite easy
Target #1: depending on where you are
BradDorsky: Well I'm driving up.
Target #1: that is, if you are close to a major subway station and not in *****
Target #1: because the **** are extremely dangerous.
BradDorsky: really wow
Target #1: oh yes
Target #1: ******* of the city is safe
BradDorsky: ok
BradDorsky: I need sugar brb
BradDorsky: ok
BradDorsky: Now you will be in school at that time right?
Target #1: on weekdays yes
Target #1: not on weekends
BradDorsky: would it be easier if I stayed in **** or a suburb where you live? (As if you REALLY would spend any quality time with this girl you've been toying with for 5 years!)
Target #1: i doesnt make a big difference
Target #1: ^it
BradDorsky: ya I know
Target #1: thats your choice i guess
Target #1: you have lots of time to plan this out...i mean, if you find something, like a hotel, just tell me where it is and i'll see if I can get to it easily
BradDorsky: Well where is all the hot spots? Besides the one in our hotel room? (gag me!)
Target #1: hot spots are in the city I guess...I've been here for 1.5 years and I have barely been anywhere though
BradDorsky: Well we can change that.
Target #1: its because i hate commuting to the city
Target #1: *********** is my favorite in the city
Target #1: Its the street of weird gothic stores
BradDorsky: really lol wow
Target #1: oh yea
Target #1: I bought a lot of stuff there
BradDorsky: really and who do you use it on? (my GOSH he's twisted & sick)
Target #1: wrist cuffs
Target #1: like bracelets
Target #1: tourists mostly go to *********** & stuff
Target #1: Ive never been to it, but I can see it from campus because it's very close
Target #1: It's the biggest ************** in the world
BradDorsky: wow
BradDorsky: lol you havent seen what in my pants!:-P (spare us ALL!!! what a narcissist!)
BradDorsky: lol
BradDorsky: I think you will make you very happy!
BradDorsky: But ya I really w ant to see you. (I got a bridge in Brooklyn too, Brad)
Target #1: yes, me too :-P
BradDorsky: I think it will be fun
Target #1: fun is not even remotely close! ;-)
BradDorsky: who knows you may not let me leave!
BradDorsky: you have nouthing to worry about I havent had *********! (Dorsky repeatedly told her he was a 25 year old virgin..... HAHAHAHAHA)
Target #1: i'm not worried. i trust you fully. (you poor girl.... he really worked on you didn't he?)
Target #1: likewise, you have absolutely nothing to worry about regarding me
BradDorsky: I know
BradDorsky: I really want to start off what we had going this summer before the problem started!
Target #1: absolutely. it will be better than what we had last summer!
Target #1: LOL
BradDorsky: Can you drink? (you'll NEED a drink after BRAD!)
Target #1: yes
BradDorsky: up there?
Target #1: im ***
BradDorsky: you can drink at ***?
Target #1: if you see me in the fall, ill be ***
Target #1: in *****, its **
BradDorsky: wow
Target #1: ** is so old...to me
BradDorsky: cool we can go to bars then
Target #1: LOL
Target #1: mmm i don't know
BradDorsky: hey I'm 25
BradDorsky: why ? not one drink?
Target #1: i don't like bars....couldn't you just get something from a liquor store if you really wanted to drink?
BradDorsky: sure
BradDorsky: as long as I have you! (one track keyboard)
Target #1: but i don't want to get drunk..
Target #1: one drink is fine
BradDorsky: lol ok
Target #1: LOL
BradDorsky: lol trust me you will!
BradDorsky: Over and over agian!
BradDorsky: Better yet I will show you when I'm up there.
BradDorsky: brb
BradDorsky: So what will you do when you see me?
Target #1: do you mean like right away when I see you or in general?
BradDorsky: yes
Target #1: first thing i will do when i see you is give you a hug. i feel very sayd that i wasn't able to do this last summer when i saw you
Target #1: sad
BradDorsky: ya I knew some was wrong when you backed away. (you acted like a superior jerk and were quite RUDE!!!!! that's what happened, Brad!)
Target #1: but i know that i will do it now
BradDorsky: for real (no matter what a jerk I am still? ick)
Target #1: yes for real
BradDorsky: lol if you only knew what I'm going to do to you.
Target #1: when? when I hug you?
Target #1: or later?
BradDorsky: I'm going for a hand full of your ****** (no manners, not even mildly suave - IDIOT!)
Target #1: hahaha in public! (typical - Target tries to make a joke because she's uncomfortable)
BradDorsky: why not
Target #1: hey i've seen epople actually do that in public so i don't think we're any worse than them
BradDorsky: ya you only live once
Target #1: so true
Target #1: so what happens after that?
BradDorsky: I'm going to ***** you in public!
Target #1: *blushing* LOL but this is hardcore! (Target trying to point out his rough language, as you will see he IGNORES it)
BradDorsky: hey the harder the better.
BradDorsky: Hey I have to run I have a long day tomarrow.
Target #1: ok cool
BradDorsky: I will chat with you later no real soon.
Target #1: well have a good night. i know i will
Target #1: yea ill be back online in about ****
BradDorsky: Come fall you will have the greatest night ever! (aren't we humble?)
BradDorsky: If I don't see you I will e-mail you.
Target #1: ok ttyl
Target #1: sweet dreams
BradDorsky: bye sexy
BradDorsky: good night
BradDorsky signed off at 9:48:33 PM.

Target #1: ok
Target #1: hello again
bdo5373689: hey
bdo5373689: whats up
Target #1: nothing really. you?
bdo5373689: did you check out the site lateley?
Target #1: your band? (Brad's "band" that he is constantly changing & too good for. Can you say LOSER?)
Target #1: i did but it stopped updating a while ago
bdo5373689: what?
Target #1: i downloaded the song clips but that was a couple months ago
bdo5373689: ok
Target #1: if there are updates, i can't see them
bdo5373689: ya it's all up now
bdo5373689: I want to get naked for one of the photo's but my friend will not let me. (thank GOODNESS!)
Target #1: lol
Target #1: start your own site then!
bdo5373689: ya Brad's nudie site (oh please.....NO NO NO!!)
Target #1: ha ha
bdo5373689: so when you adding your new pic's
bdo5373689: ?
Target #1: i am working on this...i hope to have them up by the end of the week
Target #1: i got some new outfits today and hope to have these up as well
Target #1: like i said some of the old pics will be back but not all of them
bdo5373689: ok
bdo5373689: :(
bdo5373689: no naked ?? (sheesh Brad....)
Target #1: nah
bdo5373689: :((
Target #1: if you are into that sort of thing (she wants her friend back, Brad is now in full SEX ADDICT mode unfortunately - and now the REAL Brad is showing)
bdo5373689: well at least I have something to ***** to.
bdo5373689: is your web cam up and running?
Target #1: i dont have one
Target #1: do you have one now?
bdo5373689: ya
Target #1: is it working?
bdo5373689: maybe ? why? (maybe? you lazy creep! WARNING: Cyberpaths love to do this.... only use the cam on THEIR terms, possibly for cybersex .... not for just general chat like a normal person would... and unless they can get the OTHER person naked - they aren't interested either)
Target #1: i remember you took a picture of yourself on it once last year
Target #1: i thought that was the best photo of you i'd ever seen
bdo5373689: yep
Target #1: and still think so
bdo5373689: thanks'
Target #1: i liked you in that style ;-)
bdo5373689: lol your at nut
bdo5373689: a nut
Target #1: why???
bdo5373689: in a crazy way
Target #1: im just trying to flatter you
Target #1: you know compliments ;-)
bdo5373689: ya in more ways then one,
Target #1: what are the other ways???
bdo5373689: I know a *****
Target #1: you want a small preview of the pics? i jst have one up though
bdo5373689: yes
bdo5373689: show me
Target #1: and its not too new but you have never seen this before
bdo5373689: I hope I don't **** in my pants. (eeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww)
Target #1: by the way, my hair is not that long anymore. i got it cut shorter
bdo5373689: wow nice shoe's
bdo5373689: I wish I could see ****
Target #1: sadly, no
bdo5373689: did I tell you about my new ride?
Target #1: i don't think you did
bdo5373689: I drive a new 2005 Dodge Durango.
Target #1: isnt that expensive????
bdo5373689: I sold my jeep for 3500.
bdo5373689: I got a good deal on it
Target #1: i see
Target #1: does that car use up a lot of gas
bdo5373689: ya but I love it the room and space to move around in
Target #1: what color is it?
bdo5373689: dark blue
Target #1: cool.....was the jeep black?
bdo5373689: it's the SLT model
Target #1: i always thought it was for some reason..
bdo5373689: no green
bdo5373689: with a spice soft top.
Target #1: ok
Target #1: so have you heard the NIN single?
bdo5373689: yes
bdo5373689: it's ok
Target #1: pretty good song. i am looking forward to the album
bdo5373689: they are playing two shows in ****
Target #1: the **** shows sold out in 3 minutes
bdo5373689: both sold out
Target #1: 3 minutes! i couldnt buy tickets at all
bdo5373689: that sucks
Target #1: theyll come back in the fall
bdo5373689: they are playing clubs here this time around.
Target #1: in the fall, they are playing bigger venues, so i hope to see them then
bdo5373689: nice
Target #1: I am a NIN concert virgin and am looking forward to seeing the show
Target #1: ;-)
bdo5373689: I may go maybe not
Target #1: why not?
bdo5373689: no one to go with this time.
Target #1: ;-(((((
bdo5373689: you know what
Target #1: what is it?
bdo5373689: it would be cool if you two *****
Target #1: who?
bdo5373689: you and ******
Target #1: that's nasty
bdo5373689: no hot
bdo5373689: now I would pay to see that!
Target #1: i dont do that (Brad was now pushing lesbianism - like the 2somes/ 3somes - WAY out of Target's comfort zone)
bdo5373689: not even for me? (here he pushes to see how brainwashed he has her and what he can talk her into now that Target's been PROGRAMMED by BRAD)
Target #1: no
bdo5373689: >:P
Target #1: not into that
bdo5373689: party pooper
Target #1: just me and you..you know no other people around (Brad, she wants a person not a cyberjerk)
bdo5373689: and?
Target #1: do anything we feel we need to
Target #1: whatever comes to our minds..and is legal
bdo5373689: really ?
bdo5373689: any thing>.
Target #1: well anything we feel we need to..not just any thing
bdo5373689: whooooooooooooow
bdo5373689: I'm going to play a game I like to call *******
Target #1: how does that go?
bdo5373689: Me and four other guys ****************! (here he goes again!!)
Target #1: where did the 4 guys come from?????
bdo5373689: my possy
Target #1: i thought i said..."no other people around.......
bdo5373689: rule are like bones they are ment to be broken.
Target #1: nah i dont want that
Target #1: seriously though....
Target #1: do you actually mean it?
bdo5373689: I think it would be fun?
bdo5373689: how about two on one?
Target #1: even that ....i mean how can i do that w/someone i dont even know?????
Target #1: not you, the other person
bdo5373689: I know him so it counts right? (NO IT DOESN'T!!! That's called RAPE!)
bdo5373689: I mean three years is a long time.
Target #1: 3 years?
bdo5373689: ya
Target #1: youve known him for 3 yrs?
Target #1: and the other guy- i only talked to him once and i dont know what he looks like
Target #1: i dont know....i mean i want to believe you but its kinda freaky...
bdo5373689: think about it this way
bdo5373689: we would killing four birds with one stone!>:)
bdo5373689: well in your case *****
Target #1: yea but why cant they find their own chicks? i mean, why me? (poor Target you've been used!)
bdo5373689: because they think your hot too (Brad, you are showing Target's normal pictures to other guys and sex talking about her? Told them you got her all hot & bothered? Like guys who review escorts/ hookers? That's reprehensible and really disgusting).
bdo5373689: yes
bdo5373689: brb
Target #1: oh god..i did not know so many people knew who i was...
bdo5373689: ya your a wanted woman
Target #1: no seriously
Target #1: how many people there know me??? (I would be worried too, Target)
bdo5373689: for rea;
bdo5373689: real
bdo5373689: my peeps
bdo5373689: and Ihave shit loads of peeps (online????)
Target #1: what, you show them my pictures or something???
Target #1: i mean, i was always curious about how many people there know me...
Target #1: what do you mean>>>
bdo5373689: you dam well
bdo5373689: her and her girlfriend will go nuts ************
Target #1: keepthe chicks away, or you will not like me
Target #1: at all
bdo5373689: lol thats not what they told me.
Target #1: i will bepissed off if anything like that comes up
Target #1: do you understand what im saying?
bdo5373689: lol (notice how Dorsky the Abusive Predator just laughs & invalidates her feelings?)
Target #1: how about we meet alone first and see how well we go together
bdo5373689: ya you will thanking me later
bdo5373689: lol
Target #1: and then...the future is open to us..
Target #1: i have known you for 5 years, and i feel i deserve it, you know..(yes, how about one on one TALKING in person before you push this girl into sex BRAD??)
bdo5373689: can we give you ****** (she set boundaries, narcissist ignores them RED FLAG)
Target #1: i dont think so
Target #1: i think thats impossible
bdo5373689: how about one in your...*****?
Target #1: ive never heard of anyone doing that successfully
bdo5373689: It's possalbe and you will go home in one peace
Target #1: i dont want that
Target #1: still tho..how about we meet alone first and see how well we go together
Target #1: just be yourself...
bdo5373689: lol are you sure about that? (Brad will be anyone you want him to be until he has you where he wants you psychologically & emotionally - then its SEX ADDICT HELL)
Target #1: i think it would be better
bdo5373689: ok
Target #1: the future is open....we can think about it in the future
Target #1: ok
bdo5373689: well I have to go I will chat with you later. (I have another girl on the line who let me use & abuse her - Target's set boundaries so she's no fun for the Cyberpath now!)
Target #1: bye
bdo5373689: have a good nite
Target #1: i will ttyl
Target #1: you too
bdo5373689: bye
bdo5373689: hey *****
Target #1: hi
bdo5373689: ***** is on line
Target #1: *****??
Target #1: i am taking a short break from studying so unfortunately i wont have time to talk to him right now
Target #1: but tell him i said HI
Target #1: ill talk to him after exams end
bdo5373689: so you don't want to talk to me eather?
Target #1: just for a little bit
bdo5373689: cool
Target #1: ill just ask you one thing
Target #1: did you see the site?
bdo5373689: I tried a couple of days ago but nouthing had changed
bdo5373689: I will try again.
Target #1: there will be a picture; click on it
bdo5373689: ok
bdo5373689: I see now sweet
bdo5373689: wowo
Target #1: oh yes
Target #1: sweet is the word
Target #1: LOL
bdo5373689: I want to *****! (Brad do you talk to your mother, whom you live with, that way? or do you just want to use & abuse ALL women??)
bdo5373689: I want to see the real thing
Target #1: real thing?
bdo5373689: you know in person
Target #1: ok
bdo5373689: see I sent **** the link and he's *********** ready. (sharing her picture again??)
Target #1: how do you know what he is doing?!
bdo5373689: he told me so (you boys online are gross)
Target #1: what photo? did he tell you that?
bdo5373689: and to answer your question everything?
Target #1: how do you know? is he there with you???
bdo5373689: he one of the guys that wants to *****
bdo5373689: but he has a nice ****
Target #1: how would you know that? you saw him naked????
bdo5373689: I've see it
bdo5373689: yes (Brad, how old are you emotionally? 15?)
Target #1: where?
bdo5373689: he striped at a party last supper bowl
Target #1: oh
bdo5373689: I was putting dollers in his g string.
Target #1: um...ok
Target #1: *doesnt know what to say* (log off Target!!! That's just sick!!)
bdo5373689: we are crazy (yes you truly are)
Target #1: was he ok with you seeing him naked?
Target #1: he didnt care?
bdo5373689: he don't care
Target #1: oh boy
bdo5373689: the problem is all the ladys in my crew want ******* me.
bdo5373689: I have to work my way out of it. (what a lying egomanic!! probably all the girls that know him have been with him and now want NOTHING to do with him so he's online looking for someone trusting & far away to believe his B.S.)
Target #1: am i one of those girls?
bdo5373689: your a freak you will fit in
Target #1: what i am saying is are you also working your way out of this? or do you mean other girls, not me?
bdo5373689: no girls in my crew up here want me for **** but I will not do so because I not a ***** (but you treat every woman you meet or chat with like a ***** don't you Brad? and you are online because you are beating them off with a stick? you live with mom? what a catch!)
bdo5373689: besides I would rather invade ****
Target #1: well i hope its not just ****
bdo5373689: everthing
bdo5373689: I wish you were here right now I would put you to work!
bdo5373689: I need a ***** so bad right now.
bdo5373689: how many ***** have you given?
Target #1: 0
bdo5373689: hmm you might be a liar (WARNING: Cyberpath now going to put Target on the defensive because she dared to question his morals! Classic move)
Target #1: who do you think I am?
Target #1: I have never touched a guy like that
bdo5373689: really
Target #1: well of course
Target #1: you don't trust me???
bdo5373689: I don't know :-/ (Brad you need to be caged)
Target #1: why would i lie? if i were with you, youd see
Target #1: i would be all nervous and shaking and stuff
Target #1: my hands would be shaking
bdo5373689: I heard you where a freak
Target #1: who would say that?
Target #1: they're the liars
bdo5373689: your funny (Brad is also, like all cyberpaths a BULLY)
Target #1: why? i'm 100% serious
bdo5373689: ya you probley would be shaking.
bdo5373689: I know man
bdo5373689: lol
bdo5373689: dam I wish you would show me
Target #1: show you what?
Target #1: sorry didnt get the last thing you said
bdo5373689: well I have to run ttyl. (jerk... run run run!!)
bdo5373689: bye hun
Target #1: ok i have to go as well
Target #1: bye bye
Target #1: hello
[explicit/ edited]
bdo5373689: Did I tell ya I got a new job with Coke.
Target #1: no you didn't tell me
bdo5373689: It's seasonal right now. (every job Brad has is temporary or seasonal - Mr. Stable)
Target #1: how is it?
bdo5373689: But I pays really good
bdo5373689: I going for my cdl too so I can make more money with them.
bdo5373689: I start may 16
bdo5373689: 6:30 am to 4:30 pm
Target #1: i see
Target #1: that is a long day
Target #1: and that is a very good photo on your profile, by the way.
bdo5373689: plus untill I get my cdl I have to travel to **** it's a hour away from my work. For training
bdo5373689: thanks
Target #1: i like your face in it..you look so thoughtful and calm (poor Target, you wish he was)
bdo5373689: I'm hoping I will be able to save up enough money so I can go see ya.
Target #1: how interesting.
Target #1: would that happen soon?
bdo5373689: Well it all depends
bdo5373689: If they keep me on no not this year I will have to wait for a vacation week.
bdo5373689: But if they lay me off maybe.
Target #1: just wondering, that's all
bdo5373689: Come again?
Target #1: just wondering if it'll be this year or not
bdo5373689: I don't know for sure.
Target #1: anyway....are you in the mood to do something fun?
bdo5373689: like what?
Target #1: well, let me ask you for something...
bdo5373689: shoot
Target #1: do you have a working webcam?
bdo5373689: yes but my mother is behind me watching tv.
Target #1: well what i was going to ask you for is this thing that a lot of people do on webcams...they take a piece of paper, write a message to the other person, and then take a pic of it
Target #1: so i thought" maybe Brad has a message for me he can make into a sign or something"???
Target #1: only if you feel like it of course....no pressure
bdo5373689: ok hold on.
bdo5373689: I will show you later sometime when she's not around. (Brad, you are really predictable)
bdo5373689: Have you been a good girl or a bad girl?
Target #1: i don't know

bdo5373689: Have you *********** any guys as of late?
Target #1: oh no not again
Target #1: i never have!
bdo5373689: So you have (putting Target on the defensive - NOTICE how Brad did this RIGHT AFTER a possible moment of personal intimacy or REAL TALKING (not sex) to the Target, Classic Online Predator move to put personal distance between themselves & their victims)
Target #1: no
bdo5373689: lol ok
bdo5373689: I would try to get ***** with you.
Target #1: what does that mean?
bdo5373689: Make you my sex slave! (because that's all women are good for Brad?)
Target #1: what does that mean?
Target #1: like what's different about that as opposed to not being one?
bdo5373689: what?
Target #1: like what special things would i have to do?
Target #1: in a *****
bdo5373689: Well this gos for any girl.
bdo5373689: if I have ****** with someone she has to *********. The same gos for me! And shes has to be adventurous!
bdo5373689: She would have to let me ***************!
Target #1: you know..if you feel this way about someone, you have to try to make them happy...that's it (yes Target - you have it right. Problem is, ole' Brad has NO FEELINGS!! NONE!! ZIP!! He's a misogynist & an online predator)
bdo5373689: nice
bdo5373689: Maybe try ****
bdo5373689: Maybe some **************. i could teach you some things!
bdo5373689: How do you feel about ******?
bdo5373689: For me great It's all good it's not like I'm asking you to **********.
Target #1: i will NOT ********* ever!
Target #1: I draw the line (uh oh Target, boundaries - Cyberpaths don't LIKE that)
bdo5373689: can i ************
bdo5373689: can I ***********
Target #1: i don't know...is there like a special meaning behind it?
bdo5373689: no just for fun
bdo5373689: I'm going to weawr my *****
bdo5373689: with my ***** god no
Target #1: i don't want you to wear any shirts? and is there really a ******* shirt?
bdo5373689: ya my bad [Brad tries to start voice chat]
Target #1: i don't have voice chat
bdo5373689: :(
Target #1: so did you actually write something for the webcam?
bdo5373689: me ************
Target #1: that was the message?
Target #1: a picture?
Target #1: or what
bdo5373689: what would you like me to say?
Target #1: hmmm...something that you would not be ashamed to say to me in person LOL
bdo5373689: I'm not ashamed? (Cyberpaths know no shame!)
bdo5373689: I want to **************
Target #1: well i don't know....I have never had anyone say anything like this to me in real life
bdo5373689: dose that get you
bdo5373689: Ow I can be real dirty and nasty (we know, we know)
bdo5373689: ;)
bdo5373689: Would you let ********?
Target #1: what do you mean?
bdo5373689: Or would you like it if I *********.
bdo5373689: I would *****
bdo5373689: and *********
[explicit/ edited]..
Target #1: you there???
Target #1: well unfortunately i have to go to bed.ttyl

Target #1 finally gets wise to Brad, her online friend and emotional vampire for 5 years. She was clicking around the web, like many of us, for things that interest us - and LO & BEHOLD - Ole' Brad is on the ONLINE DATING SITES.... has been for a while.... after CONVINCING & SWEARING to Target #1 she was the ONLY girl, the ONLY one for him and the ONLY one he was chatting with. Here's the CONFRONTATION

bdo5373689: Are you really not at your desk or do you not want to talk to me?
Target #1: hi
Target #1: i think i do need to talk to you
bdo5373689: Whats going on cutie? (she has a name Brad)
bdo5373689: ok shoot
Target #1: well you did not talk to me for a while..do you know why?
Target #1: i will tell you why you haven't seen me
bdo5373689: What happend?
Target #1: well I stopped talking to you back in May because one day I was clicking on some links, looking for something unrelated, and I see this webpage with ads for people looking for friends or whatever and I see your picture on it...and I was like "what the....?" . I was shocked
Target #1: I would love to know what that was all about
bdo5373689: What site was it.
Target #1: I don't remember I only went there once. I saved the photos in case you do not believe me
Target #1: I was very stressed. I started having panic attacks, so I deleted my Messenger because I could and I felt very hurt and angry. And I still am because I don't understand what that's all about
bdo5373689: Well ya I was hitting a couple of personal sites? So whats the big deal? (OMG Brad - invalidation, lying, minimalizing and ignoring her concern! You are a PIECE OF WORK!)

Target #1: well I don't know what you're doing on them. I want to trust you ..but I don't know if I can. THat's why I was shocked.
Target #1: I mean I really do want to trust you, but that ad thing scared me. I thought "What if Brad has like 7 other chicks on the Internet and tells them the same thing?" It's only natural to think that
bdo5373689: Wait you and me are friends? Right I mean thats all I have been looking for.
Target #1: on the sites?
Target #1: Friends usually trust each other...it's kinda hard to be friends with someone you can't trust (BINGO!!!)
bdo5373689: wait what kind of site was it? (Oh come on Brad, you know EXACTLY what it was!)
Target #1: it had personal ads on it
Target #1: i cannot remember the name.
Target #1: i was shocked by seeing you there. i could not believe it.
bdo5373689: I did have a couple of ad's up but nouthing that bad?
Target #1: well why did you put them up?
Target #1: don't mean to be rude, but i am curious
bdo5373689: let me see that pic's.
bdo5373689: the pic's
Target #1: ok give me a minute i need to find them
Target #1: did you get one of them?
Target #1: im resending it
bdo5373689: no I'm seeing nouthing?
Target #1: it's "waiting for you to accept transfer request"
Target #1: that's what the window says on mine
Target #1: it's like a larger version of your profile pic
Target #1: you should have gotten both now
bdo5373689: ok whats your deal with them? I mean it's two photo's?
Target #1: it's not the photos. it's the ad thing. why do you need to meet those girls???
Target #1: you never told me about anything like that
bdo5373689: Why would I have to tell you any thing I don't want to tell you? I mean we are just friends? (OMG - again, talking in an intimate and sexual manner to her and now you don't need to tell her anything? Mothership... come get Dorsky!)
Target #1: but the last time you talked to me, you said some pretty interesting things
bdo5373689: So whats the big deal?
Target #1: because first you say we're friends, then you say you're horny and want something more than friends, then you say we're just friends again.. (typical Cyberpath - unclear boundaries, unclear relationship and he's hooked you in and now tries to make it look like the Target is just jealous!! COMPLETELY minimizes what he's done and DEFENDS the INDEFENSIBLE)
Target #1: some things we talk about are pretty dirty for "just friends" (Good Girl Target!!)
bdo5373689: I talk dirty to other girls and I just friends with them? (you do? then you need to get psychological help! btw - WHAT OTHER GIRLS????? HMMMMMMMMM...........)
Target #1: oh so you have like 7 chicks online and you tell them the same stuff you tell me?
Target #1: or how does that work? I really do want to know (poor Target, she just realized she wasted 5 years of her time on a predator!)
bdo5373689: not all of them? Like you are not doing the same thing. (nice try at blame-shifting your predator! Dorsky is probably mistreating ALL women because of what one girl & or his mother has done to him. To him they are all whores & liars. Sick boy!)

Target #1: oh no?
bdo5373689: good night
Target #1: believe me, i don't have any ads online!!!!!

BRAD LOGS OFF - BUSTED!!!!

Dorsky WAS still online trolling, and tried to threaten this site - but all his profiles & his MySpace disappeared after the initial expose! .....hmm, wonder why??

BRAD DORSKY: ONE VICTIM SHARES HER THOUGHTS

ONE OF BRAD DORSKY (our Predator of the Month)'s
VICTIMS SHARES HER THOUGHTS:
Brad and I met in late 1999 or early 2000 in a social/cultural issues discussion club on Yahoo (he was, at the time, real-life friends with the founder). We didn't talk until spring of 2000, but I had liked his posts because they were written in a very unusual style and because he seemed to fit the "dream man" criteria I had in my head. (Cyberpaths tailor their "stats" to fit YOUR needs... liars)

I was only 15 and had been through difficult experiences in the school I attended prior to high school, and I wanted to vent to someone about society and why people treated me the way they did at that school. I was happy because I had lots of friends in high school but at the same time, still angry and depressed and didn't feel like I could love someone. I added him to my Friend List for that purpose- venting and talking about social and cultural change from the heart. I actually didn't want to get into more than friendship because I had this feeling that it was going to get out of control. I added everyone in the club, but he was the only club member to write me back with a friendly note saying that he read my profile and he couldn't wait to talk to me. (he figured out you were depressed, in need of some attention and moved in for the kill!)

We became on and off friends from 2000 to 2002. We did flirt a lot, but we also had fights over pretty juvenile things (musical taste or just difference of opinion) and would stop speaking sometimes for months.

In 2002, our club disintegrated, and my family moved to another city where I started university, which took me a while to adjust. During that time, I felt like Brad was the only stable thing in my life. He told me and made me believe that he was my soulmate and that we had a spiritual connection that was deep & intense. It was then that I started getting real feelings for him. We started talking about meeting and becoming intimate. He told me he never had sex with a girl because he wanted something serious and soulful, and girls in his area were slutty... he said I was that girl he was looking for, and when we would finally be together, it would change our lives. After a long year filled with planning and, sadly, my lying to my family on some occasions, we met in person. I was 18 at that time. (how CONVENIENT of him to WAIT until you were LEGAL! Almost pedophile-like grooming of you then he pounced when you were of age, huh?)

He was extremely arrogant and didn't even look into my eyes half the time. I felt like my head automatically bowed in front of him. He made me feel very small because he is tall and used his arrogant posture, making him seem even taller. I thought he had a very warm, hypnotic voice and his eye color was very fascinating, but the meeting was a disaster. He was with a friend of his, which I did not expect, and after 20 minutes, he disappeared on me.

My parents were there; they were shocked and my mom said she could feel these very bad vibes from him just when he talked. I didn't listen because he'd brainwashed me thoroughly. Later, he told me it was my fault because I didn't listen to his directions properly, but whatever it was, he "punished" me by not talking to me for several months. (typical)

We "made up" in late 2003 and kept talking until 2005. Beginning in 2003 and into 2005, he changed gradually. He made up different excuses about why he couldn't come and see me. He also dropped covert hints that I wasn't good enough for him and that if I wanted him to see me, I would have to improve myself. He began to step-up the brainwashing; subtly telling me howI should dress and act and what kind of beliefs I should have and what I had to think about the world in general if I wanted him to be with me.

I didn't realize he was abusing me only because I thought abuse involved overt name-calling or physical abuse and he never called me a hurtful name in my life. Around this time the sexual conversations began to turn scarier for me. He started asking me more often if I was going out with other guys behind his back and being "disloyal." He began to use some very frightening terms and continually manipulated me into discussing sexual stuff I was very uncomfortable with. If I didn't agree to do it, we couldn't have a real relationship, according to him. (GAG!!! what a user & predator!!)
Our relationship turned into a hopeless cycle of me trying to change myself and please him and then him complaining about something that made me 'never quite good enough.' By the end, Brad told me I was going to be his sex slave (and told me what that would entail!!) and he would control the way I dressed when I was with him to make it more revealing in ways I hated (everything low cut and those plaid schoolgirl skirts). He also made jokes about threesomes with his male friends. Despite all of my objections, Brad effectively used this thought reform to add one more layer of fear to our relationship. By now we only talked approximately once a month and rarely e-mailed.

Every conversation now was filled with tension. I would think "What else is he going to tell me to do? How will I have to please him?" I was very fearful and hypervigilent by 2005 because I truly did not know what to expect. Sometimes, he would let things go, but other times, he would not and I never knew when he do one thing or another. I used to say "Brad is watching over me" meaning I thought he was supporting and loving towards me. But by this time, it felt like he really was watching my every move. He had twisted my mind, and everything I did was filled with this doubt, "would Brad approve?"

I found out the truth in the summer of 2005. At this time, the relationship had turned into blatant emotional abuse and I decided to stopped speaking to him temporarily because the anxiety was making me physically sick. The stress made me lose about 5-7 pounds and felt very weak. I always suspected he was talking to other girls online, but he had convinced me it wasn't serious and I was the only serious girl he had any relationship with. Accidentally (I was looking for something related to his state's music scene), I found the first of his online personal ads! It had his picture on it, the same one he sent me, which confirmed - it was him.
When I read the ad, for the first time in our relationship, I began to cry. I realized he was a total fraud. He said he "was looking for the right girl" in his ad. I thought, "how could he say that when he told me I was right for him?" (all cyberpaths say this and guess what NO ONE WILL EVER BE RIGHT!! its a LURE!!) Here I had changed myself at his direction and was at the point of exhaustion, all so he would come see me; just so he would touch me! I was horrified by the fact he used the same exact language in the ad as he did with me. He made me into a disposable shell of myself and he threw me away, all the while BLAMING ME for not being "good enough." How could this man call himself moral and representing some sort of "indie culture" when he was a liar. (Because he's narcissistic)

I then went on a search of more personals sites and found him at at least three different sites, portraying himself in three different ways. That's just the ones I could view without registering. He probably has more ads and picks up some of his girls through Yahoo clubs, as he did with me. (Yes, probably using the same B.S. or tailoring it to each girl so he can twist her mind too. Psychological sadist)
The last time we spoke was in July of 2005. I confronted him about the ads. I told him that I saw one of the ads. He admitted it to me ("I didn't write anything that bad in those ads!") and told me I was overreacting and that I should basically pretend I never saw them because he said, "I am going to tell you what I think you should know". (LOL!!! JERK!!!) He even asked me to prove I saw them; by that time, I knew how he operated, so I saved the two photos on his ad and sent them to him. After that, he said "So what, we are just friends, aren't we?". I told him that we were planning to have something more, and he said "I talk dirty to lots of girls online and we're all just friends." (and that's OK???? Wow what a pervert! And a liar. And a USER! Can't have a female friend without it being sexual?)

Brad then accused me of being disloyal and talking dirty to other guys online behind his back and before I could answer him he left. (how mature!! NOT! he was BUSTED!! This is a common reaction for cyberpaths. Projection -- accusing you-- and running; like a roach when the lights come on.)

Afterwards, I began getting better. Iit took me a couple months to calm the anxiety attacks and the constant feeling of being inadequate. I am much better now, although when I get depressed the feeling comes back. I have not had any contact with him. I found some other screennames from one of his emails, researched them found that they probably some of his other current online targets.

I don't want 'revenge' or to 'teach him a lesson.' I have nothing more to say to him. I want to expose him because I know there are other girls feeling the same pain and anxiety I was subjected to by this cyberpath and I want to know they're not alone and its not their fault. I also want to warn other women that may want to meet him via his online ads. Hopefully, more people can now understand the way predators like him think and operate and make decisions to avoid someone like him. (good for you!)

I am now enjoying studying and living my life the way I want. It's an amazing feeling not to be brainwashed or controlled by someone who claims he does it because he loves you and because he's helping you become a good person. There is no longer that feeling of pressure on me, and I can't believe how good being free of him feels!
(GOOD FOR YOU!!!
This story is classic and shows how these guys manipulate their victims then PROJECT their bad behavior on their victims, leaving the victims feeling guilty -- while running away to find new prey! This cyberpath picks on girls who are too young to realize what he's doing until its to late; grooming them and once they are 'of age' getting sexual kicks online with them. This was emotional rape, a serious boundary violation and legally "intentional infliction of emotional distress" - Fighter )

POLICE INVESTIGATE ANGRY EBAY-ER'S REVENGE SITE

By Chris Williams

Police are investigating a disgruntled eBayer who took online revenge after paying £375 for a laptop which, he said, did not work.

The buyer recovered the hard drive from the malfunctioning notebook, finding it full of personal details, allegedly including access to email accounts, 90 voyeuristic leg shots taken on the London Underground and gay porn. He posted the material on a website, naming and shaming Barnet 19-year-old Amir Tofangsazan as the seller.

Clearly, someone doesn't see the funny side. A Scotland Yard spokeswoman said Barnet police are investigating a complaint made on 29 May at Fulham police station regarding improper use of a public electronic communications network. She added: "The allegation follows from a civil dispute. No arrests have been made and inquiries continue."

At time of writing the site had clocked up almost 950,000 hits. A dismayed Amir told the Daily Mail the website had made his life a "living hell", and that his family had received threats. He said: "The laptop wasn't even broken. It was in working order. The last few days have been a nightmare, some of my friends have seen it and my father is very angry."

Amir said he had not received any "polite requests" for a refund. On his revenge site the buyer counters: "This site is 100 per cent genuine, I swear I'm not making anything up."

Amir told the Daily Mail: "I will obviously be trying to get the website taken down as soon as possible." In the meantime, the site is available here

The buyer has been named as Thomas Sawyer, a 23-year-old student from Exeter. He offers to pull the site sown voluntarily in exchange for a refund.

Meanwhile, The Daily Mail reports that Amir allegedly pulled a similar scam on Newport Pagnell woman Debbie McInerney, who says she paid him £147 for an iPod which never arrived. Amir said: "The police are investigating the iPod case and I can't comment on it."

BRAD DORSKY - A REAL 'CHARMER'

Posting here, with permission from the victims, some of the chat transcripts one victim had with Mr. Dorsky. Please find her story and read it and you will see how hollow his chat was, how full of lies, distortions and outright come ons. Despite the victim's youth and Dorsky relatively young - I have seen NO DIFFERENCE between his talk and the way older online predators talk, groom, manipulate and LURE their victims. - Fighter
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VICTIM: hey baby whats up how are you?
bdo5373689: peachy you.
VICTIM: great how was the NIN concert?
VICTIM: kick-ass i presume?
bdo5373689: yes did you read my post it on it?
VICTIM: yeah tell me more
bdo5373689: they had this huge stage with lots of lights and three huge.
VICTIM: three huge what?
bdo5373689: screens with images and of all kinds of beach and
VICTIM: wow that is awesome did they play a lot of songs from the fragile?
bdo5373689: and other stuff there was so much I can't tell you all you would have to see it to understand.
VICTIM: i see
bdo5373689: about five or six
VICTIM: well did you miss me? i was thinking about you all day today...just completely couldnt get you out of my head
bdo5373689: they played alot of old stuff too they played for a hour and a half and perfect circle played fourty five min.
bdo5373689: as allways i did miss you.
VICTIM: perfect circle is good have you seen their video? it was directed by rthe guy who did fight club.and they have a chick bassist too!
bdo5373689: I see you missed me. (notice how throughout these chats, Dorsky WAITS for her to say something then basically repeats the sentiment back. This is a seduction technique known as MIRRORING to get the Victim think you & they are "of one mind" or "on the same page." It also creates a FALSE sense of intimacy.)
bdo5373689: I say the chick bassist.
bdo5373689: but i did not see their video.
VICTIM: its basically them playing in a warehouse but the camera work is a lot like fight club. its all shaky and very dark
VICTIM: the song is called judith
bdo5373689: sounds cool
VICTIM: yeah it really is.
VICTIM: so anything else new?
bdo5373689: so what else is going on?
bdo5373689: thats it I have work tomarrow.
VICTIM: um nothing today i had to write a crappy survey ins chool..but at least i missed all morning classes
bdo5373689: I had the day off
VICTIM: lucky you
VICTIM: did you have any weird dreams about me
bdo5373689: I droped the top on my jeep and went to my friends school and helped out at the radio show being on the air and stuff.
VICTIM: oh yeah i remember reading in the club you do that sometimes
VICTIM: thats cool
bdo5373689: no did you have any of me? (He's hoping.... The dream chat stuff is another form of come on)
VICTIM: no i dream of twiggy sometimes tho
bdo5373689: I am going to a show at the campus I might be on the show as well maybe.
VICTIM: what show?
bdo5373689: tomarrow so I know I will not be online.
VICTIM: oh okay
VICTIM: im going to scan my pic tomorrow
VICTIM: so saturday when youll talk to me itll be all ready for you
bdo5373689: the Radio show That I was helping out
bdo5373689: cool
bdo5373689: cool
VICTIM: you cant wait right? (notice how he didn't say what the victim hoped he'd say so she was forced to ask.... he manipulated her)
bdo5373689: the one band tours with a porn star, that is playing tomarrow night. (Dorsky HAD to bring up the porn star thing and notice how he lets it drop...)
VICTIM: guy or girl?
bdo5373689: yes by all means
bdo5373689: girl
VICTIM: does she sing or play? what does she do
bdo5373689: they love on at the show they want me to be on when I start class there in the fall.
bdo5373689: don't know.
VICTIM: okay
VICTIM: ask me something, im running out of words
bdo5373689: sorry anouther friend IMed me.
VICTIM: ok
bdo5373689: So now is there any one trying to mac you ? (Not his business, really but again, making sure she has NO OTHER CONTACTS so he's ISOLATED her and protesting that she's his when he was probably chatting up multiple girls. More manipulation)
VICTIM: no why?
bdo5373689: didn't you say there was one after you ?
VICTIM: oh i see what youre talking about
VICTIM: there was that guy online who tried to hit on me but it old him i was unavailable and then i checked out his profile and he was not my type
VICTIM: we never talked since
bdo5373689: I see ok
VICTIM: and you? i always thought chicks were all over you cuz of all that stuff you used to write in your profile
VICTIM: then you told me you were a virgin and i was really surprised
bdo5373689: really thats just my nutty self.
VICTIM: oh wow hehe
VICTIM: whats your favorite song of this moment
VICTIM: i always like to ask people that because then i can sorta tell how the person is feeling
bdo5373689: I am off the wall online and off you should here me on the radio show.
VICTIM: yeah i wish
bdo5373689: the smashing pumpkins
VICTIM: cool which one?
bdo5373689: blank page (that's Brad - BLANK PAGE - like all Cyberpaths: "Anyone you want me to be"... except the real you)
bdo5373689: how about you ?
VICTIM: lets see..im feeling like a NIN song today
VICTIM: probably closer or perfect drug
bdo5373689: they don't play the perfect drug at the show I was pissed!
VICTIM: that sucks i love that song for some reason it reminds me of you
VICTIM: then again a lot of songs do thats why i obsess with them
bdo5373689: Ow your so cute I am the same way.
VICTIM: thats so cool which song reminds you of me
bdo5373689: the same one. (MIRRORING!!)
VICTIM: wow that is even cooler
VICTIM: we both think exactly the same thing
VICTIM: about each other
bdo5373689: ya he he we are mind readers.
VICTIM: lol haha
VICTIM: can you tell what im thinking right now
bdo5373689: you want me up there right now?
VICTIM: wow that was damn easy wasnt it?
bdo5373689: ya you sexy thing you.
VICTIM: hehe yeah i like you like that
VICTIM: are you still there?
bdo5373689: yes sorry
VICTIM: thats okay i meant what i said
bdo5373689: I was talking to the other person. (so many windows with so many innocent young girls talking to this predatory jerk)
VICTIM: okay
bdo5373689: really roar!
VICTIM: haha
VICTIM: yeah i do i love playing mind games with people especially guys
bdo5373689: so this is all a big joke now?
VICTIM: are you kidding again? of course not!
bdo5373689: joking
bdo5373689: yak yak
VICTIM: im just trying to flirt with you
VICTIM: in my own way
bdo5373689: like you said we think alike. (no Brad - you REALLY DO play mind games! the victim was trying to be flirtatious, you were being manipulative - BIG DIFFERENCE WITH INTENT. When someone protests that they "aren't liars, won't hurt you, are honest, etc" - RED FLAG!)
VICTIM: i guess so
bdo5373689: you sweety you .
VICTIM: aww
VICTIM: thats so sweet of you
VICTIM: talk some more to me ill have to leave you in 20 min or so
VICTIM: i have a test tomorrow
bdo5373689: so what do you want to talk about?
VICTIM: hehe well..something interesting
VICTIM: you pick the topic
bdo5373689: Are you in to S&M at all? (OMG when left to pick the topic - LOOK where his mind goes! Major red flag!!)
VICTIM: no not really. are you really into that?
VICTIM: like is it the only thing you do?
bdo5373689: no no not at all I am not in to it
VICTIM: cuz handcuffs piss me off theres no way ever in my life ill let someone use handcuffs on me
VICTIM: nor will i ever use them on someone else
bdo5373689: I just wanted to see what you thought about it.
bdo5373689: hay want to have siber sex?
VICTIM: um well how do you do that exactly?
VICTIM: im intrigued but still..
bdo5373689: Its just like having sex but you type.
VICTIM: ughh do i have to type out descriptions or something cuz thats just ******
VICTIM: no offense or anything
bdo5373689: I don't know I never did this before what ever you want.
VICTIM: well ive never done that either
bdo5373689: he he he
bdo5373689: ok lets see who do you want to start first?
bdo5373689: thats if you want to? (Victim is just talking but he goes RIGHT for the sexual chat - that's the only reason he's really online talking to her .... BLECH)
VICTIM: well i dont have much time but hey what the hell
VICTIM: hold on be right back
bdo5373689: ok
VICTIM: im back
bdo5373689: so are you in or know?
VICTIM: all that will happen in the next few minutes is completely private?
bdo5373689: yes
VICTIM: oh
bdo5373689: what?
VICTIM: my parents want me to stop chatting...damn
VICTIM: what about saturday? by that time i will have my pic scanned and you can look at me and imagine that im right there
bdo5373689: ok then we can start saturday
VICTIM: great well have a good night
VICTIM: how long do you think itll take?
bdo5373689: hell ya talk to you later sexy good night.
VICTIM: bye love ya baby
VICTIM: i knew it was going to come to this but i dont care
VICTIM: one day ill do it in real life
bdo5373689: ya sounds like fun
VICTIM: hahah now im one of those internet perverts my parents keep lecturing me about (no honey, you are chatting with one)
VICTIM: well i must stop now im getting overly excited
bdo5373689: no not at all (of course - Brad doesn't think its perverted.... breaking down her defenses for more talk **see her story** later)
VICTIM: talk to ya saturday and bye sexy
VICTIM: im out
VICTIM: sweet dreams
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VICTIM: hi baby im here
bdo5373689: So what are you going to do to me lover?
VICTIM: i just want to talk to you... (notice where HE wants to go and where the VICTIM wants to go - 2 different things!!!)
VICTIM: the things you said last night were on my mind all day
bdo5373689: in what kind of way??
VICTIM: because you and i are very similar. we have the same tastes, we have the same goals and our personalities are alike
VICTIM: because i feel a connection with you that i cant even explain it's just there (you are talking to a net-mirror that's why)
bdo5373689: I see
bdo5373689: the only problem is getting there with out being noticed
VICTIM: yeah i know what you mean
bdo5373689: I mean when you think about it we are in the same boat.
VICTIM: exactly
bdo5373689: And me haveing work problems isn;t helping.
VICTIM: whats happening?
VICTIM: at work i mean
bdo5373689: I hate my job to the point that I want to quit and go somewhere else but one the other hand I want to see you and if I start a nouther job now I will not be able to see you this year. (dangling himself: carrot & stick - TYPICAL CYBERPATH MOVE. 'glimpses of what could happen' with NO REAL INTENT OF ACTING ON IT EVER!)
VICTIM: yeah i know how you feel if you REALLY want to see ill guess youll just have to hold on a little bit longer
VICTIM: i hate school sometimes too so much that i just want to quit of course i never do
bdo5373689: ya you should really finish high school that is a big milestone in your life you should not screw it up by droping out.
bdo5373689: If any thing finish school.
VICTIM: yeah i dont want to drop out im actually smart its just that the monotony of it pissess me off sometimes
bdo5373689: ya I know what you mean, by all means.
bdo5373689: So how was your day?
VICTIM: good i bought a cd today
bdo5373689: wich one?
VICTIM: the matrix soundtrack
VICTIM: its one of the few cds where i like every song on it..well almost every one
VICTIM: theres about 2 sucky songs out of 13 thats really good
bdo5373689: I heard it on the way to P-town when WENT up there with a friend.
VICTIM: cool how did you like it? it has manson on it- rock is dead is a great song
VICTIM: but then again so is every manson song.. except sweet dreams
bdo5373689: Its on the very tip of the cape thats where a the gays hang out and well you know >(
VICTIM: ok
bdo5373689: ya I would have to say.
VICTIM: so how was your day? sounds not so good, am i right?
bdo5373689: So tell me what are you wareing? (wearing? o.k. again, sexual chat on his mind - this is like the net version of "what's your sign?" all so the cyberpath can fantasize)
VICTIM: pretty much the same outfit as yesterday
VICTIM: its just that im in the same mood as i was yesterday
bdo5373689: ya well I would have to say it sucked my day that is.
VICTIM: sort of excited and dont know what to expect from you
bdo5373689: I want to meet you soo bad (meet??? hahahahaha)
VICTIM: yes i know how you feel i cant stop thinking about you
bdo5373689: I hate this place it sucks with out you.
VICTIM: same here
VICTIM: hold on ill be right back
bdo5373689: I think it would be cool If we where in the same band together.
VICTIM: im back
VICTIM: yeah it would be interesting and if we had a video id make it a fight club-inspired sort of thing
bdo5373689: What some guy beating the crap out of me?
VICTIM: so id be playing my guitar and youd be playing my love interest & playing bass
VICTIM: no no no just the "love" story of fight club and the way it would be shot
VICTIM: the video i mean
bdo5373689: So would I be banging you in the video?
bdo5373689: like in the movie?
VICTIM: yes wed have to do a sex scene thing..it would be simulated of sourse but im sure wed0 make it look real
bdo5373689: so when I am banging you what will the other band members be doing?
VICTIM: well wed have like 2 storylines going on
bdo5373689: hold on one sec.
VICTIM: thered be some shots of me & the band just playing while destructions going on
VICTIM: and then thered be the whole subplot between us and theyd come together at the end
bdo5373689: so are to lead singer?
VICTIM: yeas lead singing & guitar
VICTIM: what did you mean? i didnt really get what you were saying
bdo5373689: ya when your done ****ing me manson could **** my ****. he he he he (perverted - guess what the only thing Mr. Dorsky thinks about is?)
VICTIM: interesting
VICTIM: have you read manson's autobiography?
bdo5373689: no you?
VICTIM: ive read parts of it
VICTIM: some are quite sick a lot of details of his and his band's fetishes and all that
bdo5373689: really
VICTIM: yes
bdo5373689: sounds neat (neat? UGH!!!)
VICTIM: hehe yeah you will probably like it
bdo5373689: I should pick it up
VICTIM: yeah its called "the long hard road out of hell"
bdo5373689: well we have two things in common
bdo5373689: me and manson that is
VICTIM: and they are...
bdo5373689: long hair and big d***s no lie
bdo5373689: its all truth (geez Brad - is everything about what's happening in your pants? Wait - YES IT IS!)
VICTIM: long hair? really? how long?
VICTIM: and also do you have a goatee? just wondering?
bdo5373689: well his is a little longer then mine
bdo5373689: I am going to cut it thow
VICTIM: oh okay
VICTIM: i like spiked hair
VICTIM: on guys i mean
VICTIM: and how do you know what manson looks like naked? (she picked up the subtle red flag here but Dorsky uses her youth to diffuse the concern)
bdo5373689: I would look like shit with spiked hair
VICTIM: oh well whatever you like
bdo5373689: I have seen video I him naked
VICTIM: what video?
bdo5373689: His second one he put out there are three of them.
VICTIM: is that dead to the world? or god is in the tv?
bdo5373689: hold on one sec.
bdo5373689: dead to the world
VICTIM: ok what did he do naked?
bdo5373689: a seen by the pool as he was pissing in it.
VICTIM: ahh okay
VICTIM: ive seen some nude pics of twiggy
bdo5373689: really?? do you have them on hand ?? (nude pics!! like a shark to blood!! UGH)
VICTIM: no but i can find the site address
VICTIM: if you want it
bdo5373689: Manson did some for playgril (HOW do you know this, Brad??)
bdo5373689: sorry play girl
VICTIM: i think i know which ones you mean
VICTIM: i was actually kinda disappointed by the twiggy ones
bdo5373689: ya thats it I have a gay friend with the pics on his computer but he did not e-mail them to me yet (I bet you have the Brad. I bet you are looking at them during this conversation!)
VICTIM: i can give you the sites that have them
bdo5373689: the basterd
bdo5373689: ok
VICTIM: why do you want to see them tho?
bdo5373689: just because
VICTIM: hehe
bdo5373689: no reason really
bdo5373689: chicks only get me off not dudes (sounds like anything perverted, even a tiny bit sexual, i.e. - talking about body parts, S&M or your you-know-what and manipulating unsuspecting girls gets you off, Brad)
VICTIM: well anyway the page that has them is XXX
VICTIM: scroll way down to where it says XXX magazine
VICTIM: thats nice to know about
bdo5373689: could you make it in to a hyper link for me
VICTIM: how can I do that
bdo5373689: you did it once before
bdo5373689: with you site that is
VICTIM: oh you mean do the pink fight club-ish font?
VICTIM: oh wait no you mean something else
bdo5373689: don't worry
VICTIM: i dont know how to do that that just happened by accident that one time
bdo5373689: I will right it down
VICTIM: yeah just copy the address then paste it into "location" and go there
bdo5373689: ok hold on
VICTIM: i will
bdo5373689: ok nothing is going on
VICTIM: what do you mean
bdo5373689: I did what you said
bdo5373689: and nothing no site of any kind.
VICTIM: then just type the address into "location" and press enter
VICTIM: its working just fine
bdo5373689: ok its working
VICTIM: well did you see them?
VICTIM: what did you think?
bdo5373689: I say bits only I will book markit
VICTIM: ok
VICTIM: talk to me some more..not about manson just about us or whatever
bdo5373689: So do you know that person at all?
VICTIM: what person
bdo5373689: In the pics
VICTIM: the chick? no idea. before rose mcgowan manson had a lot of girlfriends
bdo5373689: do you know who runs the site
VICTIM: a lot of porn people
VICTIM: no i just have it bookmarked because it has a lot of good pics
bdo5373689: there are nude pics on the site? ('PLEASE let there be more nude pics' right Brad? PLEASE let this chick unknowingly give me some fresh porn to look at!!!! ick...)
VICTIM: except these 2 no
bdo5373689: ok
VICTIM: i was kinda disappointed by the twiggy ones
bdo5373689: but why twiggy when you could have me? (oh spare us all!)
bdo5373689: he he
VICTIM: exactly!
VICTIM: twiggy has nothing on you
bdo5373689: plus I am buffer then he is. (you are huh?)
VICTIM: ok
VICTIM: plus you dont do drugs every day
bdo5373689: ya
VICTIM: and look wasted
bdo5373689: ya
bdo5373689: right again
bdo5373689: well sun shin I have to go to bed (I have to block you, watch some porn or talk to some other girl)
VICTIM: aww ok
VICTIM: i can talk to you tomorrow but not tuesday night i have to study for a test
bdo5373689: ok so i will see you wensday then?
VICTIM: yeah but you can talk to me tomorrow night too
VICTIM: unless youre busy or something
bdo5373689: no
VICTIM: ok well talk to ya tomorrow night then
bdo5373689: I will wait for you
VICTIM: thanx
bdo5373689: ok nit nit sexy
VICTIM: good night love ya baby
bdo5373689: bye love ya your b*tch Brad
VICTIM: talk to ya tomorrow
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VICTIM: hello how are you..my keyboard ****ed up but its fine now
bdo5373689: ok whats new?
bdo5373689: I missed you .
VICTIM: not much..at least i dont have a lot of homework this weekend..yeah
VICTIM: so did I
VICTIM: how was the retirement party?
bdo5373689: great everything went wonderful.
VICTIM: thats good
bdo5373689: I got a new CD today.
VICTIM: what cd?
bdo5373689: did you ever here of the band slipknot?
VICTIM: yes..i saw their video about half an hour ago
VICTIM: muchmusic has a 1 hour metal/indsutrial show called loud and I just watched that
VICTIM: so how is it?
bdo5373689: I think they will be around for along time.
bdo5373689: Its great very happy
VICTIM: cool. ive only heard 1 song by them (wait and bleed)..didnt really like it but hopefully they have other better songs.
bdo5373689: I think there other stuff is better then wait and bleed personaly
bdo5373689: sorry two LL's
VICTIM: cool...ever seen them live? my friend saw them live but i didnt..im still mad at myself for not going w/her, that show had slipknot, dope and coal chamber and my friend actually met Coal sliChamber!!
VICTIM: ignore the "sli" in front of chamber
bdo5373689: no I never say they live. & ok
bdo5373689: So when are you out for the summer?
VICTIM: end of june
bdo5373689: don't you have family in Massachusetts?
VICTIM: no
bdo5373689: or around?
VICTIM: i have distant relatives in XXXX and XXXX
VICTIM: they dont know me at all tho
VICTIM: and i dont know them
bdo5373689: that sucks.
VICTIM: lol yeah
bdo5373689: so thats how you get your ha ha's
VICTIM: so whats your other favorite music besides slipknot & manson?
bdo5373689: you
VICTIM: lol
VICTIM: yeah, i have a few song titles made up and i even have lyrics for one song
bdo5373689: now that band rocks me all night long!
VICTIM: oh yeah
bdo5373689: nice
bdo5373689: So do you have a band together yet?
VICTIM: no..itll be a long time before i will
VICTIM: sux, doesnt it?
bdo5373689: ya but I am in the same boat.
VICTIM: i know what you feel
VICTIM: what would you call your band if you had one?
bdo5373689: don't know maybe soap sunday ?
VICTIM: wow thats a cool name i like it
VICTIM: is it related to fight club in any way?
bdo5373689: don't just poped in my head
VICTIM: that is a cool name
bdo5373689: yaaaaaaaaaa its all right for a spare of the moment sort of thing.
VICTIM: i guess
bdo5373689: I could see the stage.
VICTIM: huh?
bdo5373689: A huge bath tub with a woman in sudds every where. (of course Brad would remember THAT!)
VICTIM: okay, i get what youre saying
VICTIM: what happens next?
bdo5373689: but of corse they would have to where pastys.
bdo5373689: and a thong
bdo5373689: they couldn't be nude. (detailed aren't we Mr. Dorsky??)
VICTIM: okay
bdo5373689: And there would be this huge stair way
VICTIM: ok
bdo5373689: and you would be the queen actress
VICTIM: woohoo
bdo5373689: and you would come down the stairs and
VICTIM: and what?
VICTIM: what would you be doing?
bdo5373689: don't know I'm still thinking (thinking you're a sex addict or of more ways to torture this poor girl who hasn't even met you yet?)
bdo5373689: playing my bass why what you want me to do?
VICTIM: just wondering what you would be doing
VICTIM: cant i talk to you or something?
bdo5373689: what? ya you can talk to me. (sorry so many windows and porn and other girls to pay attention to just the VICTIM!)
VICTIM: awesome
bdo5373689: why whats up?
VICTIM: nothing
bdo5373689: but what where you talking about by saying ( can't I talk to you or something)?
bdo5373689: come on spit it out!
VICTIM: i asked you what you'd be doing and you said playing your bass and i said cant i talk to you while youre playing or after a song or something?
bdo5373689: Oh ya of corse (busted Brad.... weren't ya?)
VICTIM: thats what i meant..sorry if you misunderstood
bdo5373689: I just was not sure what you where talking about at first.
bdo5373689: ok]
bdo5373689: So where do you think you will be going to college?
VICTIM: not sure yet
VICTIM: depends on marks & like that
bdo5373689: you should come here we need hot sexy woman down these parts like boston and the cape.
bdo5373689: And friendly as well
VICTIM: i will just for you
VICTIM: maybe even before i finish high school..like next summer
bdo5373689: ya
bdo5373689: do you have any beaches or lakes?
VICTIM: no
bdo5373689: do you like that kind of thing?
VICTIM: not much
bdo5373689: same here
VICTIM: cool
bdo5373689: I don
bdo5373689: sorry
bdo5373689: I don't mind pools but I hate swiming in the ocean
VICTIM: i can barely swim so why bother trying
bdo5373689: I hate salt water and jelly fish
VICTIM: eww jelly fish ;-(
bdo5373689: swiming is easy once you get the hang of it
VICTIM: i guess so
bdo5373689: If we ever meet I will teach ya
VICTIM: okay
VICTIM: ill do anything for you..haha (oh no she said the magic words)
bdo5373689: is you site up to date?
bdo5373689: really???!!!??? (oh great.... now he's gonna use her even worse)
VICTIM: yes, i updated it a few days ago..no pics tho, just general info
bdo5373689: anything!
VICTIM: well...just about anything
bdo5373689: no pic ? A hot lady like you why? (I need stuff to fantasize to!!! for free!!)
VICTIM: cant find good pics to scan..i really hope to scan one next week
bdo5373689: do you have any others on hand?
VICTIM: just older ones from last year..theres one of me in seattle where you can see kurt cobains house in the background
bdo5373689: there is no such thing as a bad pic in your case, there all very very hot!
VICTIM: thank you
VICTIM: i appreciate that
bdo5373689: can I see? if not I understand.
VICTIM: can you see what?
bdo5373689: don't you say you had other pics from last year?
VICTIM: theyre not scanned tho
bdo5373689: OH ok
VICTIM: i will scan them next week hopefully if my scanner doesnt mess up on me like it did last week
bdo5373689: are you in to any sports?
VICTIM: not at all..and you?
bdo5373689: only football and once in a while I will wich some hockey or baseball for the hell of it if nouthing else is on.
VICTIM: ok
bdo5373689: So tell me.
VICTIM: yes
bdo5373689: whats your biggest dreams of all time?
VICTIM: lets see...i want to have a career in music..my family thinks im crazy but they dont know how serious i am
VICTIM: i want to influence the world in some way
bdo5373689: now I have one question am i in this huge dream in any way shape of form? And what way would that be?
VICTIM: by music i mean a band and getting a record deal
VICTIM: and if we ever meet, you're definitely in this whole cream as my friend..and maybe even more
VICTIM: sorry..i meant dream
bdo5373689: nice
VICTIM: and what about you
bdo5373689: I want to be a rock star to put it in a nut shell I see it the same way you look at life only.
bdo5373689: I think I will not live the life of a rock star I would be more low cover so to speak. (oh spare us AGAIN!!)
VICTIM: cool
VICTIM: well, unfortunatly i must go now
bdo5373689: Ok good night love ya you foxy lady you.
VICTIM: bye sexy
VICTIM: haha
VICTIM: love ya..talk to ya tomorrow
bdo5373689: ok nite sexy
VICTIM: bye
VICTIM: im out

Husband's online revenge nipped in the bud

Celebrity adulterers have human rights too

A wronged husband bent on revenge who threatened to reveal the identity of his wife's celebrity lover on the internet has been barred from doing so. An interim injunction has been served on human rights grounds.

In a case which could have serious repercussions for online and offline media law the High Court has ruled that the wife of the celebrity adulterer should be protected from the publication of the details of the affair.

The identities of all parties have been kept secret. The husband was referred to as AB, the celebrity adulterer, believed to be a figure from the world of sport, as CC.

Justice Eady ruled that the privacy rights of CC's wife under the European Convention of Human Rights would be infringed by AB's revelations about their affair.

"In personal and sexual relationships the courts have for some time recognised that there is what is now generally referred to as a reasonable or legitimate 'expectation of privacy'," said Eady in his ruling.

The case involved a balancing of competing EHCR rights, said Eady: that of CC's wife to privacy and that of AB to freedom of expression. Eady said that he had to make sure that his judgments were free of personal moral bias.

"It is not for judges when applying the European Convention, which is a secular code applying to those of all religions and none, to give an appearance of sanctimony by damning adulterers or seeking, as I was invited to do by Mr Bartley Jones, to 'vindicate' the state of matrimony," he said.

In assessing the free speech rights of AB, Eady said that not all speech was of equal value and due equal protection. "The communication of material to the world at large in which there is a genuine public interest is naturally to be rated more highly than the right to sell what is mere 'tittle-tattle'," he said.

Eady was particularly concerned with the effects that any publicity would have on CC's wife. She was said to be suffering stress and anxiety which requires medical attention and the court heard that she had talked of committing suicide.

"If I come to the conclusion that, in order to protect [CC's family life], it is necessary to prevent the Defendant going directly or indirectly to the media for no better reason than spite, money-making or 'tittle tattle', then I would be obliged to restrain him. The fact that he may be, or may see himself as, an 'injured party' does not accord him a special status, not given to others, which inherently raises the value of the communications he wishes to make to the tabloids on to some higher plane or renders them more valuable in Article 10 terms," said Eady.

The court issued a temporary injunction stopping AB from communicating with the media directly or indirectly or publishing on the internet any details of the affair.

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The Personal Ads of Brad (Mr. Wonderful) Dorsky

BRAD DORKSY - THE REAL LADIE'S MAN (GAG)
Here's his online ad from YahooPersonals
(he posted this one while telling the victim and goodness knows who else, she was 'THE ONLY GIRL FOR HIM' - do they ALL do that?)

TITLE: Ladies where are you?

Age: 29; Mashpee, MA
About Me
First Name:I'll tell you later
Gender:Man seeking a Woman
Marital Status:Single- never married
Body Type:Average
Height:6'0
Eyes:Blue
Hair:Light Brown
Ethnicity: Caucasian (white)
Sense of Humor: Friendly, Clever / Quick Witted, Goofy, Raunchy (you can say THAT again! BLECH - no boundaries, typical narcissist)
Social Setting:Better in small groups, Flirt, Shy at first but warm up quickly (REAL QUICK)
TV Watching:News Junkie, Sports Nut, Reality Show Addict, Documentaries, Movies (you missed PORN Brad!)
Smoking:No
Drinking:Socially
Living Situation:With Parents (you are HOW OLD?)
Have Kids:No
Want (more) kids:Not sure (No one should take the focus away from Mr. Wonderful!)
Education:High School
Employment Status:Full-time
Occupation:Other
Income:Less than $24,999
Religion:Catholic
Attend Services:Never
Political Views:Not political
Astrology:Sagittarius
Languages:English

In my own words
Hello all you sexy ladies, (anyone gullible enough for fall for my line of B.S.)
I'm a musician/sales-retail worker. I am looking for Miss Right and maybe something more. I'm in a band The Hendries. I'm the bassist. I will have a picture of my yummy self (oh PULEEZE, Brad) up soon, we have a site but Yahoo will not let me post it. If you would like to see it let me know and I will e-mail it to you.

What am I looking for? A girl that's a nice person, that's not all about herself all the time. (yeah she has to be all about ME ME ME all the time!) Someone that knows how to have fun and is not shy about it, the wilder the better! I am not a huge club person but I'm not afraid to get up and dance! So if you like what you see write me back.

Sweet dreams all you foxes, (aka POTENTIAL VICTIMS)
BJD

About My Match
Location:Within 100 miles of Mashpee, MA
Age: 18 - 32
Marital Status:Single - never married
Body Type:Slim, Slender, Average, Athletic, Fit, Thick, Voluptuous (ROFLMAO!)
Height:5' 1" - 7' 10"
TV Watching:Couch Potato, Reality show addict, News Junkie, Sports Nut, Sitcoms, Dramas, Movies, I want to be on a game show too, Documentaries, Channel Hopper, Tivo is my best friend
Personality Type:Any
Love Style:Romantic, Passionate, Sensible, Careful (I go for the casual sex ASAP - because the only person I can ever REALLY love is MYSELF!!)
Smoking:Doesn't smoke
Drinking:Drinks socially

(what a prize...... the poor victim was very young & naive - and that's what he likes, young & naive - what a LOSER & PREDATOR!)

ALL HIS PROFILES & MySPACE GONE.... FOR NOW.

THE WIT & WISDOM OF BRAD DORSKY

Some of the "pearls" dropped into chats
with his victims
by Brad Dorsky (our Predator of the Month)
PLEASE bear in mind that Dorsky had been working on these victims for YEARS prior. "Grooming" them and gaining their trust and ultimately their 'love.'

I will keep you for myself and make you my sex slave (May 2005).

I will change your style and put you into more revealing outfits (May 2005).

Here's 10 photos of you that I think are sexy. Out of those 10 I have 3 favorites.
If I see you in any of my 3 favorite outfits, I will give you what you want. (May 2005)

Your photos look so hot, but why aren't you dressed more revealing?

If you put photos of yourself in lingerie on your site I might show you a photo you'll really like.

I love the photos, but where is the ass shot? I need to see you from the back.
(2003-2005)

(These were said after Dorsky made a joke about having a threesome with a male friend of HIS, the victim protested "How can you talk about me having sex willingly with a guy whom I don't even know?" - because he's a misogynist & a predator)
Well, I know him very well, so that should count, right? (April 2005)
2 or no deal, but me first (December 2004)

(Dorsky's comment to one victim on sexual positions & styles)
You just don't know what it means for you yet. It fits you as a person. You will be thanking me later on.

You will love me even more after I do this to you. I'll make sure it won't hurt you and if it begins to hurt you in any way, I'll stop right away and never do it again. (GAG!!! I bet!!)

You are so smart and beautiful that guys must be trying to get at you all the time. Are guys asking you out?

Are you seeing anyone offline?

I need to be the first one because I know if I don't, someone else will take my place (February 2004)

Are you sitting there with your friends and making fun of everything I say? (May 2003)

I don't have to tell you anything that I feel you don't need to know..after all, we are just friends, aren't we?(July 2005)

I have a lot of girls that I talk dirty to online and we are all just friends. You are overreacting.
(July 2005)

I don't trust you. I bet you are talking dirty to other guys online too. (July 2005) (projection and setting himself up as the 'victim' - like our other predators"J"/YidwithLid, Nathan Thomas, Beckstead)

What's with the hip-hop thing? Are you trying to say you are into black guys now because they're bigger than me? (2004)

Maybe you're lying to me about your sexual experience. I think you've done hand jobs before. (April 2005)

I am afraid you might not be clean (i.e. not take showers or bathe frequently). I will not have sex with anyone who isn't clean. Especially oral. (October 2004)

Girls (on the Cape Cod punk/goth scene) are total sluts, they don't love me, they just want to use me for sex and throw me away, but I am not some kind of whore for them to use,
I am a very moral person. Now, you- that's different because you care about me. (April 2005) (He's MORAL????? he's a sick pervert!! Talk about PROJECTION - he's the one USING women.)

This girl is stalking me, phoning me three times a day and trying to get into my pants, but thank God, she never will. You're so different from her, you're someone I can have something serious with. I told my mom about you and she said -- You're the kind of girl I should spend my life with. (October 2004) (some girl is STALKING HIM? Oh REALLY? hmmmm.... Probably more PROJECTION)
Most women I know have hurt me emotionally (from a personal ad from 2004-2005) (DO THEY ALL READ FROM THE BOOK OF STUPID SAYINGS??)

I want to do all the sexual things that I want to you. I want to take complete control of you and just go crazy. (December 2004)

Brad: What if I took full control of you and undressed you and tied you up... and you could be my sex slave and do whatever I want?
Victim: What do you mean???? What exactly would I have to do and why do you have to tie me up?
Brad: I don't know. I was just suggesting something, We don't need to do it. forget about it. I have to go to bed. good night sweetie and remember that you have all my love. *Sends kiss smiley face* (September 2004)
**Dorsky Made the victims learn his measurements (yes, those measurements) by heart*** (blech!)

I love how you are staying clean (no drugs/smoking/alcohol/partying), studying hard and working and becoming such a good person. (June 2004)
(Dorsky does NOT go to college, even though he has money and a semblance of intelligence. He is incredibly lazy and arrogant, lives with his mother, works retail jobs, changes 5 bands a year and acts like he is a celebrity.....) (CAN YOU SPELL MALIGNANT N-A-R-C-I-S-S-I-S-T?)

"That's what rules are made for- to be broken".

From www.electricsoulband.com (one of his lame projects' website) after Electric Soul fell apart:
As of Sunday 10-23-05 I Brad Dorsky has left Electric Soul to pursue another project that you will find out more about in the future through this web page. Since I'm the webmaster for the page I can do whatever I please.

More to come, so please stay tuned!

(Way to attract potential fans...i.e. "I can do whatever I want with this page, and you should shut up and bow down to my greatness!")

Don't mean to be sexist but I think I'm too hot/sexy/smart for most women to handle me. I mean I look hotter than they do. (2002)

That really turns me off. You should want it because of me. (2003)

FROM THE VICTIM'S FIRST CHAT WITH DORSKY:
(watch DORSKY ask all the questions and then MIRROR the victim to create that FALSE SENSE OF INTIMACY)
bdo5373689: so tell me what do you find charming in a man?
bdo5373689: Don't worry I ask every female this. (of course, so you can become IT and manipulate & torture them)
victim: .looks nice, non-sexist, understanding, honest, someone who cares about
what you have to say. someone who is totally real..i know it sounds really dumb but that's the best way to put it
bdo5373689: no not at all
victim: what about you? what do you appreciate in women?
bdo5373689: Someone that cares about what I have to say, someone that loves me both for what I am and what I am not, someone that will take the time and listen to me
victim: cool..i guess we want the same things
bdo5373689: yes i think we do (no, he wants a victim to torture. the victim wanted a GENUINE FRIEND. And since he MIRRORED her - of COURSE they want the SAME THINGS!)

So tell me, honey/sweetie/baby/sexy/foxy lady/sunshine/cutie etc etc etc, what do you feel about......" (see LURES OF THE ONLINE PREDATOR on this site)

I want to try sexual branding because it's so much fun! (3 conversations- August 2003/April 2004/May 2005) (How would he KNOW its fun???)



I MIGHT come see you really soon... (various chats after 2003)

Dorsky's Not Terribly Original Excuses not to see victims:
"I am busy"
"I am working long hours"
"I have some family stuff to attend to in another state"
"I have a musical project underway and I can't leave"
"I just want to look at your pictures for now"
"My job won't give me any vacation time this year"
"I won't come unless I am sure you can spend the day/night with me"
"I have to be sure that you will wear the outfit I tell you to wear when we meet"
"I will not come unless I'm sure you will do whatever I tell you to sexually"
"I don't have the money for a trip right now"
"I need to make sure my car is in good condition before I can drive that long"
"It's a really long drive- like 14 hours"
"I don't have a passport and I need to get one because of the new border security rules"



MORE SNIPPETS FROM MR. WONDERFUL (not!)
You don't really love me.
You don't know who I am.
You will NEVER understand me.
You don't appreciate me.
You don't listen to me enough.
You don't care about my feelings.

VERSUS PRIOR CHATS WHEN HE SAID:
You are the only girl that seems to understand me.
I wish we could take over the world together.
I love you and miss you so much.
I've been thinking about you all day.
I want to be with you right now.
You have the sweetest voice and I want to hear you sing.

I like to play games and fuck with people's minds and shock them on purpose just to see if they truly understand who I am. (FINALLY the TRUTH!! - LOL)
Some of his wonderful (NOT) treatment of the victims:
taking photos of his face with the webcam once for me as a favor , but never after that, even though I asked many times and he knew how badly I wanted to see him.

staying on Away for 2 hours and making me wait until 11 PM, on purpose, then talking to me for 5 minutes before needing to go to bed because he has to "work early"(He was chatting up someone else and torturing you at the same time - a double cyberpath header!! And some of the above is so laden with 'embedded' commands meant to mentally control & confuse this victim - remember he'd been working on her since she was 15 so now she was in HIS reality. What a nice guy! NOT!!!!!!!!! - Fighter)

A REVIEW - 1/2006 PREDATOR OF THE MONTH

A review of our January 2006 Predator of the Month
BRAD DORSKY

This is a review of our January 2006 POM
This guy's a great example of the most predominant, garden-variety type of cyberpath. Maybe because he's young and just getting his 'internet-predator chops.'

He's got all the sauve of a dead light bulb once you get past the initial nice guy facade. He appears to us to be probably narcissistic & psychologically sadistic. (Did we mention that at the time of his expose - he still lived with his mother?) He doesn't want money, he doesn't really want sex either. This is the type that SAYS he wants a relationship but is such a misogynist that he just throws out the ole seduction wamma-jamma, gets some nice young lady in his web of lies and toys with their mind. An emotional rapist.

Any guy who purposefully picks on the younger girls, grooms them the same way pedophiles groom their targets and then twists them like this deserves to be exposed. He sent our JERK-O-METER way up!! - Fighter

Brad Dorksy
Age: 28
Location: Cape Cod Area, Mass., USA

(since the original posting of this story, Mr. Dorsky seems to have removed all his dating profiles as well as his MySpace profile.)

One of his victims tells her story (with comments & internal links from Fighter):
"Where do I begin? He likes to start online relationships with girls, usually younger than himself, and never turn them into anything real... instead he only brainwashes them into becoming his little disciples. (picks on the young & naive, what a coward! These guys always prey on the young and/or the wounded) He'll tell her he loves her and wants to see her soon, but it will never materialize; he will always find excuses not to see her. (RED FLAG NUMBER ONE) If she takes the initiative, he will make sure to limit the time they have to see each other by running off somewhere and then insist it was her fault. If he actually had an education, he would be a great politician or one of those TV preachers because he is charismatic and cunning, and he can charm people into listening to him and following him. (sees LURES OF THE ONLINE PREDATOR - narcissistic type)

"Unfortunately, he has no college education, works shitty retail jobs, and lives with his mom, and he doesn't care to educate himself any further. For someone who doesn't earn a lot, he spends money like crazy- buying nice cars, going to 5 concerts a month, etc... (RED FLAG #2)

"Here's some more fun facts about Brad. He is probably a destructive narcissist; he thinks he is a god; the world revolves around him, and those who doesn't acknowledge how talented/unconventional/rebellious/beautiful /sexy he is become nothing to him. He probably changes 5-6 musical projects a year because the other band members "just don't appreciate his amazing musical talent"! (RED FLAG #3)
"Another of Brad's obvious points is that he is controlling and emotionally abusive. (surprise! NOT! RED FLAG #4) If his current target doesn't regurgitate his lies about how great he is back to him or disagrees with him, he'll cut her off for a few months or punish her by limiting Internet conversation time or not allowing to view his webcam, and even if there was no fight, it's always up to HIM as to how much the webcam can be on! ("J"/ gridney did this same thing!) During the relationship,he will periodically ask her if she's going out with other men and insinuate that all women are sluts. (RED FLAG #5) It will seem as if he's making an exception in this case, but guess what- he believes that in the end, every woman is still secretly a slut and deserves his contempt, or he wouldn't be asking her about other men.

"Of course, at first, he will seem so sweet and kind and empathetic, and he will say just the right things, reaching out to his target of the moment and comforting her, but as time goes on, she will see that nothing she does will ever be good enough, and he will imply that she needs to improve herself, since only then will he feed you the line that he MAY take the chance of making the Internet relationship a real life one. No matter how much she improves herself, he will still find faults, and because of that, he will refuse to come and see her until she's done something that captures his attention. (RED FLAG #6)


"How can I forget!... He claims he's never had sex with a girl (at 28!! with HIS ego? ...yeah right), and he will use that to manipulate and abuse her the most. (RED FLAG #7) Once he has his prey hooked, he will start telling her his fantasies and talk dirty (saying that she's his soulmate and the only woman with whom he would even think about having sex), and then, he'll say that if she wants to have sex with him, she must be his sex slave (his words, not mine) and do whatever he tells her to sexually, without questioning, because you see, he knows best what fits her personality. (He's a prize, isn't he? gag - RED FLAG #8)

"He will tell her about controlling the way she dresses and changing her style to make it more revealing; he will constantly try to coerce and manipulate her into anal sex, because he is very upfront about loving the sense of complete control anal sex gives him and without it, this relationship just won't be as deep and fulfilling (i.e. consider it over! There's nothing wrong with anal sex in the context of a loving relationship, but there's something wrong when it's being used as a weapon of emotional & mental abuse and control!) (wait didn't he tell her he was a virgin?? LOL!!)

"And, yes, he WILL talk about having threesomes with his male friends and then say that he was "joking", yet the next day, start talking about them in very graphic detail. (NO BOUNDARIES!! RED FLAGS #9, 10 and 11) He doesn't care if a girl hates it; if his target tries to tell him so, he'll ignore it or even suggest that she secretly wants to have a threesome because "she's the kind of girl who can't be satisfied with just one guy" or because she'll be so ecstatic after him that she won't care if another guy joins in (again, implying that she is a slut). He uses phrases like "take full control of you," "have my way with you," and "invade your ____ (insert body part)" during these conversations (he doesn't say anything about invading your mind first though!). (RED FLAGS #12 & 13. WAY TO GO BRAD!! REAL women must be beating down your door!!... probably from the inside to run away!!)
"What's the catch? These poor girls, who don't know about each other's existence, are all listening to the same lies and trying to change themselves for him, while he is busy on the personals websites, making up ads full of different lies, to hook more new disciples. (RED FLAG #14) It doesn't matter whether he introduced himself as goth or conservative; he is EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY & VERBALLY ABUSIVE, and he will make no qualms about it- he wants to control her mind, and if she wants to turn the Internet relationship into a real-life one, he will want to control her life. (RUN FOR THE HILLS!!)

If Brad approaches you on the Internet or anywhere else, RUN! It may be hard because he's so charismatic & charming online, but he is absolutely frightening underneath, and he will only get worse as time goes on. He does not deserve your time, money, or love."
(Brad, you get 10 NET-SICKNESS BAGS from us! We'll see more from him as this month goes on - Fighter)