A "LOVE BOMB"
If someone you have NEVER MET sends you something like this via email? Run screaming!
Highlighted in yellow are the NLP - imbedded cues - which basically set off in the Target's mind - how to think, feel and behave towards him (in some case REVERSE what is being said, i.e. cognitive dissonance at work). In short - BRAINWASHING.
Wed, 7 Sep 2005
Dear Keeper of My Heart,
I want your conscience to rest, so do not do what will not allow your conscience to rest. Again, I'm speechless as to what you said below about "betraying" me. No, please have a child IF that's what you BOTH want. No, I'm NOT disappointed that you had an appntmt in July. I don't think that your life began w/ me, & even now I don't think your life revolves around me. I wouldn't want that even if we were married.
When I call you "Keeper of My Heart" do you think that it's just my "sweet nothings"/ "sweet talking"?
No, it's where I am now. I can abide by the new terms, but cannot deny how I really feel. If you accept, I'm giving [actually, have already given] you my heart. My heart feels warmer & safer with you as its keeper. I have no fears that you might betray it. I know it's completely safe in your loving hands. I can't think of any other place I'd rather want it to be.
I've told you that I've lost interest in pursuing other women. (Yes, I know you'll just have to take my word for that one.) But that's how much & how strong a connection and bond I feel. I feel so completely "yours", [Target]
So, perhaps you might not be so enamored w/ me.
Forever Your Love,
Forever, Never, Always.... Remember readers those words? are ABSOLUTES. Usually manipulative and dishonest people (Cyberpaths fit) speak in absolutes to ATTEMPT to anchor their 'reality', their 'feeling' and basically the entire facade they want you to believe. - Fighter