Monday, March 29, 2010
Her Ex is Getting his Revenge - Online
Woman Says Her Name, Number Posted Online Inviting Sex
(MISSOURI, USA) She wanted him out of her life, but had no idea he would drag their breakup onto the Internet.
That’s what a Raytown woman said happened after she ended a relationship a month ago.
She said her former husband sent her a text message telling her to check out Craigslist. When she did, she found her name, address and phone number on the Internet site, inviting people to drop by her home for sex. (our cyberpath YidwithLid/Dunetz did this to his Target #1)
So many people responded that she was forced to change her phone number, leave her home and now she is seeking a permanent restraining order against the 44-year-old man.
KMBC's Bev Chapman reported that people who use Craigslist know that it's a place to buy, sell, trade and meet people. For this woman, it's apparently a vehicle for revenge.
"I think it's insane," she said. "I feel like I'm losing my mind over the whole deal. I'm not safe. I'm constantly looking around."
The woman, who did not want her identity revealed, said that she just learned of the posting last weekend. Her ex-husband's post was under the Kansas City list page, in the column for personals, in the casual encounters section.
The posting was crude and explicit. It described her as fit, disease and drug-free.
"Within 45 minutes, I had 17 to 18 texts and phone calls," she said. One man even showed up at her home while a police car was parked in the driveway.
This was not the first incident with her ex-husband in the more than five years since their divorce. The couple reunited for three months last year, and ended it again a month ago.
"He goes through cycles," she said. "He loves me, he hates me."
The post was removed from Craigslist. The site's operators sent a message that said they believed the post was clearly harassment.
A spokeswoman for the Jackson County Prosecutor's office said they have seen a few cases of Internet harassment, but they can do nothing for the woman without a police report.