ED HICKS - LURED IN WITH HIS OWN METHODOLOGY

(from EOPC, December 2005 - worth a re-read!!)

After Ed Hicks wife #7 (Sandra) kicked him out and started to file charges - she went online with a few "stealth identities" to prove what Hicks was doing. She nailed him trolling online for new targets almost immediately!! Here's one of those times.

Wife #7 is "Pam" and Hicks uses the pseudonym "Steve Sanders" BUSTED!

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Pam, I don't know what happened at the other site. I sent pictures and emailed you two times. Well, we have established contact now and can move on. Yes, I wish this weekend I had remained in Alexandria so we could have gone out to dinner and listened to some Jazz. My choice of music. I have been to a couple clubs in Old Town for exactly that very reason. I cannot remember the names of them but I think they were on Duke St.

No, the picture I sent you was on a beach with a shipwreck my dive buddy and I were looking over prior to getting our gear out for a dive on it. The island has numerous beaches like the one I was walking on. My property (that i own WITH MY WIFE!) is on the Caribbean side of the island. I wanted to be there because the land is mostly rock. I will build my house on a rock foundation. More likely to remain in case of direct storms. I will have to do a lot of concrete work so water entry will be easy for windsurfing, sailing and other water sports. The water depth at my shoreline ranges from 7 to 11 ft. Rather deep for maybe normal beach residences but perfect for my purposes. I will send you some pictures of my property at another time. It has palm and coconut trees on it close to the road. Vegetation and wild natural plants will surround the house. Nature does a better job of planting and growing things there than humans. :) (LAZY!!) Flowers there are so beautiful with various colors that allow you to see the true wonders the island has. If you are a nature lover this island will keep you in aw throughout your entire stay.

Okay, I have rambled on for quite some time. I will give you a break so you can tell me more about you. Send pictures when you can. Also, we should set aside some time to meet for a drink, lunch or dinner. A movie or jazz would be great as well.

Take care until the next time.

Ed

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Pam wrote:

> Ed:
>
> I am a little bit confused. I never received any mail from Charles Hicks or any pictures before from you until right now. I kept looking at your ad on AFF (American Friend Finder) and winked at you several times and wrote one or two e-mail from the AFF site but you never responded. (who ARE You REALLY ED??) I told you in one AFF e-mail that I traveled a couple of days a week to Richmond and Petersburg but maybe you didn't get it from the AFF site. Your Emporia address interested me because of my travel locations but I see you are in Alexandria during the week, which is great because that is my home.
>
> I love your photo made on that breathtaking beach and your portrait is lovely. Is it a self portrait or did someone do it for you? You are a very handsome man.
>
> The reason I asked if you were in Emporia this weekend upon learning you work in Alexandria was because I was hoping I could meet you for a drink this evening. I am sure there will be plenty of other opportunities for us since our paths are going in the same direction!
>
> Your aunt's house sounds nice and I could use some peace away from the rat race of the city. Oh you own property in the Bahamas? (LOL!!) That is lovely. You must tell me all about it. Was the photo you sent made on your property?
>
> Have a lobrly peaceful evening in the country. Sorry you are not around town to meet me this evening. I am getting ready to head out now to a nice jazz club I frequent in Old Town.
>
> Pam
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> Steve Sanders wrote:

> Pam, I wanted to have a place you and I could communicate without bother of other emails. (I needed secrecy from my wives and all the other women I am toying with!) I created this site when I received your email. The name is different from this site. It is Charles Hicks as you probably have seen on the other email address. Here I won't get junk mail and when there is a message I know it will be from you. (or the other women I am using dating sites to troll for)

> The possibilities are numerous if we can pull this together. One of the emails I sent to you had pictures. Now we may have a delimma on our hands. You be the judge.
>
> Yes, I am in Emporia this weekend. I like coming down here and getting out of the rat race of our area. I work there and coming to this small town is great for me as a get away. I bet you would like the peace of this place as well. I stay at my aunts house. (YOU LIVE IN YOUR VAN!!) She is in a nursing home and cannot care of her home. I come down and relax while fixing, maintaining and relaxing in this country atmosphere. I used to come down here when I was a kid. She took great care of me. I owe her a lot in what I have developed into today. (My last wife kicked my butt out when she found out I was a player & bigamist - and I have developed into quite the psychopath!) Her husband died in Dec and she misses him. I try to fill the void as much as possible.
>
> Okay, I will send a couple photos. One is a capture of a portrait which was drawn last year. I great likness of me. Acutally captures me better than most pictures. The one picture was taken on Eleuthera Island in the Bahamas. I own a lot there (with my last WIFE!) and am planning to build a home there starting next year. (With someone else's money of course) What a lovely place. If you looked at my profile you will understand the need for warm water, low humidity and lovely people.
>
> I hope your evening is going well. I look forward to your photos as well.
>
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Pam Allison wrote:
>
Hi Ed:
> >
> > Yes I believe we have been winking at one another but you never e-mailed me back. I am glad you chose to do so this time. Could you send me a photo and I will gladly send you one once I get some made. I am hoping to do that tomorrow. I'm going to the Waterfront Festival with a few girlfriends and will take my digital camera along.
> >
> > Are you in Emporia this weekend? I returned from Petersburg yesterday afternoon and that's fairly close to Emporia I believe, but I make my home in Alexandria. I looked for your other ad on AFF waterlover2007 but it is much different. Is that you or are you on another site too? (Wife #7 STILL trying to get a straight answer from ole' Ed!)
> >
> Sex with my former husband was not nonexistent but very rigid and boring and he lacked the stamina I so desired. I guess he is getting older and that didn't help. (She's talking about YOU, Ed!! LOL) I hope we can make a connection Ed. I hope to talk to you soon.
> >
> > Pam
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> >
> Steve Sanders wrote:
Hi, I think we both have been Winking and emailing each other on several occasions. Now to see if we can make contact to see if we want to pursue a direction which should lead to great sex. If you want to keep it that way only it is okay with me. (Ed will screw anyone, anytime - physically, financially - YOUR CHOICE! lol)
> >
I love great sex. When I was married it was non-existent. I don't have any sexual hangups that I know of. (Do you count watching hard-core porn or teen porn in a locked room while your poor wives sat alone in another part of the house? Or after having sex with them 2 or 3 times day then saying "we never have sex"? Tell her you are a sex-addict TOO Ed!)
> >
> > You travel some and so do I. I have a very flexible work schedule, which would help in some cases when last minute plans are made. It is helpful I live during the week in Alexandria and spend weekends in Emporia, VA. (My van really travels!) I don't know your schedule but I am sure we can make some time to meet for lunch, dinner or anything else.
> >
If you would like we can exchange photos. Your choice.
> >
> You have a great day. I look forward to things to come.
> >
> Adverturer06 or just use Waterlover2007.
> Despite the name, which appears, my name is Ed.....

> >
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> Adventurer, I've written you before & winked several times and this time you have finally winked back. I'm elated. I really like your profile & what you have to say & I can assure you that your discretion will be my top on my priority. (so I can get you to reveal your game playing and manipulation you predator!)

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Message from Steve Sanders
on Mon, 20 Jun 2005 05:14:45 -0700 (PDT)
To: Pam Allison
Subject: Thanks for the Picture

Pam, you are a cutie. I was not surprised, just delighted.

See, you pose an interesting question. Water Sports. Yes, one could allow their imagination to run over the edge with that one. I see yours did. :) I won't say what I was thinking when you said that, I will just let it remain there. :) You have the forum on that subject. You can expound on it or leave it alone. (I thought you had no sexual hangups Ed! that you were a "normal" guy... you are a sociopath!)

I am so glad you have a great time at the Festival. It must have felt great being outside with the temperature at a pleasant level.

I will join you at the 219 anytime you would like. I will plan around your vacation dates and find something to do. Might be a good time to go to Hatteras. I am supposed to be taking lessons to make the transformation from Windsurfing to Kite surfing. Most of my friends are making the change this year. I think I will love it more than handling a board attached to a large sail.

Back to this subject again. - Do you participate in any water sports? (I guess that is still leading) Scuba diving, snorkeling, swimming, skiing, etc.? We surely don't have to spend or time at a beach. There are other places I would like to take you. We can talk about that when you get back.

I need some feedback from you on what you like doing and where you like going. Also, time would have to factor into those kinds of choices.

Have a great time. I will let you know if I head off to Nags Head or Hatteras. They should have WiFi down there so I can send and receive email at least.

Thanks for the picture. Again, you are a very nice looking lady. :) (you're breathing - that's enough for Ed)

Ed

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Pam Allison wrote:

> Ed:
>
> I take it you are not coming back to Alexandria this evening. I could have met you for a drink tonight if you had returned to the area from your aunt's home. There will be another time for us once I return from my vacation. No it did not rain here but looked like it might storm for a while. >
> I usually go to 219 at least once each weekend. I hope you can join me there in the future.
>
> I have attached a photo taken today at the Waterfront Festival in Old Town. My girlfriends and I had such a good day there. You will have to tell me what you have in mind if we don't participate in water sports and where you would like to take me. By the way, what water sports do you enjoy? You are referring to the watersports that include skiing, swimming, snorkeling etc., or do you mean the other kind (come on Ed, tell us all what a perv you really are!)
>
> I will contact you once I return from my trip and I'll be checking email while I am gone so if you care to write I would love to hear from you.
>
> Pam
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> Steve Sanders wrote:
>
> Hi Pam
>
> Yes, I wish I were there as well. It would have been nice meeting you and spending some time last night or today. You are right, I get King St and Duke St. mixed up.
>
> I have been to the 219 club if that is the one with jazz upstairs. I think it is. Did you have a good time? I hope so. I work at the Hoffman buildings on Eisenhower. So when I go out after work or in the evenings I go straight down King St. I must say I have not been there for quite some time but would enjoy going with you. (as long as YOU PAY!)

> Sorry to hear you are going out of town for the 4th. I did not make plans. Since you will be out of town I think I will head over to Dewey Beach and windsurf for a couple of days. I hope that sometime we can get away together. I promise I won't take you to a beach. I usually end up at Dewey or down at Hattarras for water sports. I can think of other things I would rather be doing. :) (like casual sex with you or any other woman I can get)
>
> You have a great time on your vacation. I will have to let my mind relax for another week or so. Let me know how your time is after the 5th. I don't want anything else to get in the way of us at least meeting.
>
> I have been working on my aunt’s house this weekend. It is raining here now. I hope the weather remains clear up there. (My van needs an oil change)
>

> Write when you can.
>
> Ed
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From: Pam Allison
Sent: Thursday, June 23, 2005 7:22 AM
To: Steve Sanders
Subject: Re: Vacations are nice

Ed:

An A+ for your guess. I am in Amsterdam. I have been here a few times and love the city with its beautiful canals, history, and art and the people are so warm and hospitable. I stay out of the smoke shops. I am getting way too old for that. It sounds as if you have been here although you do not elaborate. What are your favorite things to see and do? Give me some ideas of places to go. Where did you stay when you were here? Have you been to Rotterdam?

You asked about my private life. I am hiding nothing and will tell you everything about myself and prefer to do that face to face. (like 'YOU ARE BUSTED you ONLINE PLAYER!!' LOL) Frankly that is the way it should be and if goes beyond just gratification for us, I expect it. The reason I talk about discretion is because I am not yet divorced and would appreciate discretion in that area until it is final. I am sure you understand. My divorce will be final very soon.

I was married to a master manipulator, first-class, certifiable low life. He was also pretty lousy and totally controlling in bed and to top that off impotent at times, and those times were 'coming' closer and closer together...excuse my pun! A little humor for you this morning. He was much older than me so his impotence was to be expected. (that's you Ed!) I am glad you and I are the same age. That is such a plus. (Ed you change your age like your underwear)

I will tell you all about him at some point but don't want to waste precious Internet Cafe time talking about Him. I made a terrible mistake but I'm over it.

I am driving Rotterdam for a couple of days to see the sights there and will be back to Amsterdam on Sunday. I will check my mail then. I fly back to Dulles on the afternoon of July 4 and I am looking forward to meeting you at 219 or even some where for dinner prior to our going there.

Until then, take care for now.
Pam
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Steve Sanders wrote:

Hi Pam
Sounds like you are in Amsterdam. Are you having a good time? Have you been there before or is this your first visit? The museums there are great. Is this a good guess? :)

It is hard to talk about myself. About as hard as writing your own professional resume.

What makes me tick - I think peace makes me tick. I dislike arguments but disagreements are fine. Discussions which have no right or wrong are great. Mental jousting is always a good thing as long as it remains that. I am a giver unless I realize the one I am giving to is a taker. (Ed gives NOTHING - he takes and bolts as fast as he can!) It doesn't have to be material things. (your trust, your soul, your good name... Ed will take it ALL)

Actually, material things have a tendency to turn me off. All I require is to feel a person loves or cares without reservation. (that won't find me out, that won't expect me to pay my debts or my share and will let me use them like toilet paper) We all look for different things, that is what I yearn for. So far, those illusive traits have avoided me for a very long time. It is hard to find someone you can touch their heart and they touch yours. (Since Ed HAS NO HEART) This is on any level. Even the level we speak of can have those factors rolled into it.

I am going to retire in a couple years. Some of my plans have changed but the basic of living in the Bahamas is still first and foremost in my mind.

Now, how personal can you be with me about your life? I don't want to pry. If there are things you don't want to tell me let me know what they are and I will refrain from asking. I am not nosy, just curious. (so please don't be nosey about me!)

I am private and I respect others who are the same. Discretion and privacy have always been a part of my life. Even as a kid I could keep a secret and never tell anyone. (Never tell anyone THE TRUTH!!) When I was first learning about girls. From my first affair through the remainder of my life has not been spoken of in terms of who, where or when. Friends would see me with someone and I would listen to their escapades but would not offer names, etc. Naturally we would talk about the things we did and how we did them but no names from me. I remember the first time oral sex came up in my life. I had heard about it but had never made and attempt. Sure, the other side of the oral equation had been performed on me a couple of times and I knew there should be more for her. To shorten this, after I reciprocated I found that I felt just as much excitement as she had received. The pleasure was mutual.......... Wow. (I had yet another way to use & control women!! whoo hooo!! Now I could really twist them into emotional pretzels)

Hey, stay out of those SMOKE SHOPS. :) No, you do what you want just leave it there when you head home.

Write when you can.

Ed
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>
Pam Allison wrote:

> Ed:
>
> I found time to run into an Internet Cafe late this morning and I couldn't wait to see if you had written.
>
> A few Vermeers, Hals, Steens, and several Rembrants are calling my name so I have to be brief. Can you guess where I am? I will try to check my e-mail tomorrow. There is a Cafe located near where I am staying near the corner of Stadhouderskade and P.C. Hooftstraat that I can easily get to from my hotel. There are more clues for you.
>
> Tell me about yourself and what makes you tick. What are your turn offs and what are your turn ons? Tell me about your life. (Good question, sounds like a mere stiff wind will turn Ed on!)
>
> I am looking forward to seeing you in two weeks. As for watersports, I am going to let you expound. What would you like? I would like to see how your imagination works.
>
> Pam