tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post114274228975252243..comments2024-03-20T08:11:50.879+02:00Comments on Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths: The Cyberpath = Psychopath With Internet AccessUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-53263533969036796612011-03-07T16:34:19.164+02:002011-03-07T16:34:19.164+02:00I have to agree that cyberpaths is a good name for...I have to agree that cyberpaths is a good name for cyber abusers. The similarities are disturbing. My abuser falls into most of the categories above. He is a pathological liar, a narcissist,and a manipulator. He posts provocative statements which makes him a troll and knows how to work just within the law. He has been abusing people for years and years and is extremely adept at stalking. He typically complains that HE is the victim. Before i met this man, I had no idea how to use search engines or screenshot. I also didn't understand the importance of privacy settings so i guess i have him to thank for that. The police flounder in cases like this and don't have a clue how to support victims.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-64335852528420229532010-02-12T09:13:33.845+02:002010-02-12T09:13:33.845+02:00My manipulator finally blew it. Thanks to articles...My manipulator finally blew it. Thanks to articles such as this, the Fighters here had prepared me to recognize the signs when it came time for me to be tossed under the bus. Thank god I was ready and knew immediately that the guy was lying through his teeth to me. It was difficult to contain my laughter and when I got up to go I knew it would be for good. That he thought I would actually believe any of it was the funniest part. The lie was so complex, highly detailed and obviously rehearsed I should have asked for popcorn and some Milk Duds.<br /><br />That was eight weeks ago. I'm still concerned that he will force some sort of a idiotic personal confrontation or showdown to get in the last word face to face -- not like he hasn't said too much already. I admit that the first few weeks I was constantly looking over my shoulder but its getting better. Even if he does force a showdown or does something rotten, who cares? The guy is and always has been insignificant, which was a bitter pill to swallow. How much of the past 20 years was really just a manipulation? How many years or opportunities wasted? Should I have realized something was wrong sooner? Those are the things I think about now. <br /><br />One curious side note is that it turns out we have no common social connections, something I hadn't fully realized before. We used to, but he has worked ceaselessly for 15 years to isolate his various targets from each other so we couldn't compare notes or horror stories. And in fact his final words to me was an admonishment not to tell "anybody else" the ridiculous tale he'd related to me. Then I realized, who would I tell? We have no common acquaintances let alone common friends, and in fact many of his targets dislike each other due to his prior manipulations. Hence he has nobody to send out to look me up on his behalf to try and re-assert contact. He'd have to do it himself, and my bet is that he can't bear to face me like that after I finally passed his test.hesitantnoreply@blogger.com