tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post112814205638408036..comments2024-03-20T08:11:50.879+02:00Comments on Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths: Definitions of a "Player"Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-33347857613999063622011-05-19T02:04:02.373+03:002011-05-19T02:04:02.373+03:00Agrees with 'Fighter'. Anonymous you need ...Agrees with 'Fighter'. Anonymous you need to open the communication doors with your wife. If she refuses to go to counseling or discuss the issues further with you, then you need to re-think your situation and perhaps look at leaving the marriage in the correct manner. Communication is vital in any marriage. Think of the effect this will have long term and the damage it will inflict upon your child. There is a lot at stake. <br /><br />Going online looking for further communication always takes a sinister turn. No matter how well your intensions start out, there are just too many risk factors. It's just not worth the grief and the serious problems that you will incur down the line.<br /><br />Talk to your wife. Bring back some romance, organize a sitter and take your wife out, surprise her.<br />Sometimes it just takes a little work from both parties concerned and you can have what you lost back again. Having a young child can make things difficult, it is a huge adjustment but one you can take onboard and overcome.<br /><br />Good Luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-1167254727901297532006-12-27T23:25:00.000+02:002006-12-27T23:25:00.000+02:00yes you do need something: COUNSELING. You don't ...yes you do need something: COUNSELING. You don't talk to your wife but you are online looking for fun? What is WRONG with that picture. Yes - anything that takes you AWAY from your marriage or primary relationship to hang out (even online) with other women? Is WRONG? Would you let your wife sit next to you and watch these chats you have? if not - you need help and NOT from someone online. You have a child - time to be a father or get out of the marriage amicably.Fighterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06346101823708828451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-1167162420817138212006-12-26T21:47:00.000+02:002006-12-26T21:47:00.000+02:00O.K....I am a man in a marriage with child, home, ...O.K....I am a man in a marriage with child, home, job, etc... My wife is not interested in sex and I still am. We do not sleep together since my child sleeps with her for the past 24 months. Does it make me a playa fi I am looking for communication that I am not getting at home? Mind what I said, communication not sex. She rather sit around with her sisters or go out with her "Girl Group". It has came back to me that she can "take it or leve it" when it come to intimacy. I do not go out looking for sex, nor anything else. I just wwant to get some female conversation...is that wrong? My wife and I do not talk about much so I need something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com