tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post1060295495578333566..comments2024-03-20T08:11:50.879+02:00Comments on Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths: INSIDE THE ABUSIVE MINDUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-67221268307969953702009-10-12T17:53:19.928+03:002009-10-12T17:53:19.928+03:0016 of these have defined Capers to a T. I would a...16 of these have defined Capers to a T. I would add a trait of emulating others to this listing. Due to the cyberpathing, the amount of people engaged at once, along with the stories, its as if the person becomes them and loses any sense of self. There were so many red flags and hindsight shows that the stories I was told were not that of the perpetrator, but the stories were those of the other victims.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-6865353505427694002009-10-10T11:17:08.932+03:002009-10-10T11:17:08.932+03:00Eerie, creepy, and weird: EVERY passage from that ...Eerie, creepy, and weird: EVERY passage from that post describes a certain loser I have been trying to work out of my existence for a couple years now, except for the fact that the guy is not a computer user and is very vocal about (supposedly) detesting porn. The passages about the entitlement, jealousy, superiority & self aggrandizing are the creepiest, because that's the guy! I only realized the depths of his issues after stumbling upon this blog back in the spring and learning that there are actually names for the things he does. Like manipulation, projection, the marvelous CHAOS MANUFACTURE (of which he is the undisputed king!) and now fragmentation.<br /><br />Just about a month ago I had the displeasure of spending a few brief minutes in his presence and had a terrifying experience when the guy flipped out over my casually referencing somebody else as "the smartest person I know". It was a harmless, off the cuff, partly tongue in cheek comment made about the most insignificant of matters, so insignificant that I don't even remember how we got on the subject. But I will never forget the outcome. <br /><br />You would have thought I'd spat in the guy's face. He became hostile and aggressive within the span of a single breath, was on his feet jabbing his fingers in my face, his own face a contorted beet red mass of hysteria and the veins popping in his neck: In 20 years I have never seen him like that, ever. At first I thought he was joking around, especially when he informed me that he'd "been tested for IQ three times and each time the score was 215, which is way above genius, so don't give me any of this smartest person you know crap". I haven't heard anyone talk like that since the fifth grade.<br /><br />The scary part is that he wasn't joking or kidding, the guy was dead serious and kept repeating "I take this as a personal insult, and expect an apology ... No, no, I take this as a personal insult, and expect an apology" while looking up at the ceiling and gesturing with his hands. I sat there thinking, what the hell is going on here? Nobody can be this childish, especially in their late 40s to mid 50s (nobody has ever known how old he really is for as long as I have known him). I tried to defuse the situation with humor and was treated to an insult laden diatribe about how he was easily the most intelligent, well-read, resourceful, compelling, hard working, and capable person I have ever met in my pretty much useless life. Which he pointed out meant even my father, every teacher or boss I'd ever had, and all of my friends, unless they could produce a notarized IQ test with a score of 216 or higher.<br /><br />Is that even possible? More to the point, <b>WHO WOULD CARE ABOUT SUCH A THING??</b> Thoroughly humiliated and concerned about my personal safety I apologized, thanked him for setting me straight on the matter, and got the f***ing hell out of there. Then two weeks later we crossed paths at the grocery store and he acted like it had never even happened & wanted to go get coffe, his treat. Hello???? <br /><br />Have been ignoring his calls since and am considering getting my number changed, and am using the garage to keep the car from being seen in the driveway when home. Aside from the lack of a porn addiction and computers that above article is a totally accurate rundown of how the guy operates, right down to isolating his assorted targets so we can't compare notes. Sent chills down my spine to read it over, want to learn more and am completely creeped out. This is someone I have known for 20 years (we used to be co-workers), he knows everything about me and is a predator extraordinaire. Only now do I see it for what it really is and am enacting measures to sever all avoidable contact. THANK YOU!!hesitantnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17248371.post-8718376564867551642009-10-09T07:00:08.803+03:002009-10-09T07:00:08.803+03:00Great blog. I really appreciate all the info.Great blog. I really appreciate all the info.seethelight2009noreply@blogger.com